CONFLICT RESOLUTION

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In friendship, what does a CONFLICT mean?

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Disagreements, Arguments, and Fights

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What is a good example of being competitive?

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"NO, I won the race! You cheated... I came in first"

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Another reason Conflict starts is because of FRUSTRATION. WE sometimes think we are kings and queens and everyone of our wishes should be granted and given to us. Which is the best example of this below? "It's my turn to ride the scooter", "I CANT believe you brought her a red bracelet, but you only brought me a sticker! You like her more than me, we're not friends anymore.", "You used the playstation yesterday, today its for me.", "Save me a piece of the cake or else"

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"I CANT believe you brought her a red bracelet, but you only brought me a sticker! You like her more than me, we're not friends anymore."

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Best example of MISINFORMATION: "Melissa told me you were telling everyone in the cafeteria that I wasn't good at basketball. I can't believe you would go behind my back... you know what, we are not friends anymore!", "Give me the jump rope because you don't even know how to use it.", "That's mine!", "You can't sit here, we are not friends"

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"Melissa told me you were telling everyone in the cafeteria that I wasn't good at basketball. I can't believe you would go behind my back... you know what, we are not friends anymore!"

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Which of these is an example of being bossy? "I won the fortnite battle yesterday, I'm the fortnite champion of the world!", "It's my turn today... you always want to keep the controller", "She said that you were wearing ugly shoes", "So you better not talk or text her anymore... you either stop talking to her or we won't be friends anymore. Block her on Instagram now!"

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"So you better not talk or text her anymore... you either stop talking to her or we won't be friends anymore. Block her on Instagram now!"

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When there is a conflict, you can either react NEGATIVE or POSITIVE. A NEGATIVE response is one that is made quickly and with a lot of emotion. A POSITIVE response is made calmly and with talking and listening.

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True

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What is an example of a NEGATIVE response?

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"I TOLD YOU TO GET OUT!!! YOU NEVER KNOCK!! GET OUT OF MY ROOM ALREADY!!"

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What is an example of a POSITIVE response?

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I know you want to play right now, but if you let me finish chatting with my friend, we can play in a little bit.

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When we reply NEGATIVELY, it hurts our friendships and our relationships.

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True

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When we react POSITIVELY, we build better relationships and stronger friendships.

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True