Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Come up with a plan to make everyone happy!

Multiple Choice

Is this a good image for thinking "win-win"?

• Yes

• No

NO! These are ROADBLOCKS to thinking win-win:

• I'll step on you to get ahead.

• I'm a loser. I can't do anything well.

• At least I am better than him/her.

• I can let someone else win again.

Multiple Select

Have you ever “stepped on” somebody else to win? Have you ever pushed someone aside so you could get something you wanted? Have you ever cut the line or saved a seat?

• Yes

• No

Multiple Select

Do you always let other people win? Do you not raise your hand to answer a question because you know somebody will answer? Do you let people jump in front of you?

• Yes

• No

If you answered YES to either of those questions, you are not thinking Win-Win!

In order to think "Win-Win", you need to I be confident in you.

You must not care what others think of you. You need to be happy to see others be successful. This takes practice - it's ok to not feel it naturally right away. :)

Poll

How do you feel about winning right now? Be honest! ;)

• Very good! I love to see others win!

• I'm ok seeing others win sometimes as long as I win sometimes, too.

• I would rather see myself win, but I don't get upset.

• I really don't like to see other people win. Sometimes it really gets me mad

Multiple Choice

What does it mean to think "Win-Win?"

• It means I get what I want, but other people are not happy.

• It means that we both get what we want.

• It means that I am not happy, but other people are happy.

• It means if I can't have it, neither can you.

Multiple Choice

Habit #4 suggests everyone can have a _________ attitude.

• personal

• winning

• competitive

• low-key

Multiple Choice

T or F. You are responsible for your own state of mind!

• True

• False