conflit

conflit

By Travontae Anderson

Multiple Choice

You are in the red zone and a friend wants to resolve a conflict with you. You should:

• yell at them until they leave you alone

• roll your eyes and walk away

• ignore them completely

• tell them you are not ready to talk yet

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Which of the following is something you can control?

• Feeling disappointed

• Disagreeing with your parents

• Yelling at your best friend

• A difficult classmate

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Which is something you should NOT do when having a conflict with someone?

• talk respectfully

• call names

• walk away

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What is conflict?

• a time when people get along well

• a strong disagreement or argument between people

• a joke between friends

• I don't know

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When you are working to resolve a conflict you should start with Kindness & Respect. Which is an example of this?

• Saying whatever you believe is honest and true no matter what

• Treating others the way they treat you

• Treating others the way you want to be treated

Poll

.......I try to calm down before I react.

• Yes

• No

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What is the best way to resolve a conflict

• Blow up

• Walk away

• Peaceful, direct confrontation

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Which is conflict?

• Isha wants to do Karate and Faman wants to do swimming

• Arbaz let Faman play with his tab

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What is conflict?

• a struggle between opposing forces or characters

• a happy family with no issues

• a complete sentence

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Which one is conflict?

Multiple Select

What are three things you should do to show you are paying attention to what someone else is saying?

• nodding your head

• making eye contact

• trying to really listen

• dancing

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Which is compromise?

• Ayesha let her younger sister eat the only ice cream

• Arohi doesn't share her tiffin with Sara

• Tushi loves her cat

Poll

.... I do my best to avoid physical fighting.

• Yes

• No

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Which one is compromise?

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Who's the real enemy when there is a conflict?

• the other person

• the problem you're trying to solve

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The Story of the Elephant is an example of which Guideline for Disagreements

• Seeing a part of the story

• Seeing things from another's point of view

• Accepting all opinions as right

Multiple Select

What are the three best options when trying to find a mediator for a conflict?

• Your dog

• Parent

• Teacher

• Another classmate

• Your goldfish

Poll

.... I believe I have more to gain by working things out.

• Yes

• No

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During conflict resolution, what strategy can result in a win-win?

• Throwing rock when the other person throws scissors

• Running away

• Compromising

Poll

Have you had a conflict with anyone at school or home recently?

• Yes

• No

• I don't think so.

Poll

.... I listen to what the other person has to say.

• Yes

• No

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You don't have to agree but...

• You still need to be friends with everyone

• You only need to be friendly to people who are friendly to you

• You can still be friendly

Poll

.... I try to see how I'm responsible instead of just blaming the other person.

• Yes

• No

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What is something you SHOULD do when having a conflict with someone?

• take a deep breath

• call names

• scream at them

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.... I look for ways to solve the problem rather than win the argument.

• Yes

• No

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What is one of the most extremely important skills in resolving a conflict?

• Talking

• Showing your emotions

• Deep breathing

• Listening

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...... I am willing to compromise.

• Yes

• No

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Knowing how to resolve, or solve, conflicts is important. The first step is to:

• Choose a solution.

• Share your feelings.

• Stop being friends with the person.

• Calm down.

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..... I avoid using put-downs.

• Yes

• No

Multiple Choice

One of the quickest ways to destroy conflict resolution is by...

• Waiting until you are calm to talk

• Rolling your eyes & using a sarcastic tone of voice

• Getting help from an adult or friend

• Summarizing & Clarifying

Poll

.... I speak my truth, but I do it respectfully.

• Yes

• No

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When you're feeling angry at someone, it helps to empathize with them, and consider their feelings. What does "empathize" mean?

• Understand

• Talk

• Disagree

• Smile

Poll

.... I try to put myself in the other person's place instead of only focusing on my own stuff.

• Yes

• No

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Which one is not an example of Summarizing & Clarifying?

• It sounds like you're saying______. Am I understanding you correctly?

• I understand what you’re saying. Here are my thoughts…

• Do you get what I'm saying? No? Oh well. You just don't get me, do you?

• That’s interesting. What do you think about this...?

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Knowing how to resolve, or solve, conflicts is important. The second step is to:

• Calm down.

• Tell the person you don't want to be their friend anymore.

• Share your feelings.

• Choose a solution.

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Uh oh! Rob and Trista are having a conflict! They are both REALLY angry. What should they do first?

• Trista should call Rob names.

• Rob should push Trista.

• They should both walk away to calm down.

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Knowing how to resolve, or solve, conflicts is important. The third step is to:

• Share your feelings.

• Go out for pizza.

• Calm down.

• Choose a solution.

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You are feeling frustrated by someone else's behavior. You should:

• use an I statement to explain how you feel ('I feel...')

• grumble under your breath and hope they get the point

• complain to someone else about them

• accuse them of being annoying ('You are...')

Open Ended

What is one thing you do to calm down?

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When you want to resolve a conflict, why is it important to take a breath first?

• to get ready to scream

• to get ready to fight

• to calm down

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What is empathy?

• understanding the feelings of another person

• being unable to understand a person's feelings

• when you feel sad

• a feeling of anger at someone for how they feel

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Angel wants to play basketball, while Victor wants to stay inside and play a video game. Which of the following is a compromise?

• They play each game for an hour.

• They don't hang out at all

• They play basketball

• They argue until one person gives in

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What is compromise?

• when you let someone win a game

• when you walk away feeling upset

• when a person or group gives up something in order to reach an agreement

• when you compare two things

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How is she feeling?

• Joyful

• Confused

• Upset

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During an argument, people might say hurtful things they don’t mean and ESCALATE the problem. What does ESCALATE mean?

• to feel better

• to calm down

• to make worse

• to share feelings

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This type of conflict takes place inside a character's mind or heart

• internal

• external

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What is a mediator?

• a person who makes the conflict worse

• a person who helps people solve conflicts together

• a person who paints pictures

• a person who is mean

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This is called ___.

• meditation

• conflict

• reading

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Which of the following emotions is the worst one to express when you're trying to resolve a conflict?

• Amusement

• Sadness

• Confusion

• Rage

Open Ended

What is one thing they can do to resolve their conflict?

Multiple Choice

Which is true about conflicts?

• The more people you involve, the better.

• Talking behind someone's back really helps.

• Asking to speak directly with the person you are mad at is a good first step.

• It's a good idea to tell all of your friends what the someone did to upset you, so they can be mad with you.

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They resolved their conflict by ____.

• staying calm

• stomping off

• screaming at each other

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A mediator helps settle disputes between two parties. A mediator is similar to:

• A ballplayer

• A lawyer

• A judge

• A businessperson

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Choose the best choice for what you should do if you aren't able to fix a problem you have with a friend.

• Stop being friends with them.

• Try taking time away from each other.

• Talk about them behind their back.

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This type of conflict takes place between a character and something outside the character

• internal

• external

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What's the most likely outcome of yelling at someone you disagree with?

• They see your side of things

• They want to be your friend

• They don't really care

• They get angry

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Active listening is:

• All of these!

• Listening carefully to the other person's words.

• Taking time to understand the other person's perspective.

• Being patient and not interrupting.

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Someone who must always get her way is most often viewed as:

• Selfish

• Persuasive

• Unintelligent

• Helpful

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True or False: Without conflict, a story would be boring.

• True

• False

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You're upset with your mom for throwing away some of your old comic books. How should you tell her?

• "How could you do something so horrible?"

• "You have no right to touch my things!"

• "That was really mean and thoughtless."

• "I'm upset that you threw away my comics."

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What type of resolution is best?

• Lose-Lose (no one gets what they want)

• Win-Lose (only one person gets what they want)

• Win-Win (both people benefit)

• No resolution (conflict continues)

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If you're arguing with a classmate, who's the best person to mediate the dispute?

• You

• Your best friend

• Your teacher

• Your classmate's brother

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A struggle between a character and his feelings, conscience, or fear

• man vs. self

• man vs. man

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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Place the following steps for resolving a conflict in order: A) Breathe deeply; B) Suggest a compromise; C) Listen to what another person says

• C, B, A

• A, C, B

• B, A, C

• A, B, C

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Blaming, yelling, avoiding, and eye rolling are:

• Great ideas for problem solving

• Common roadblocks to problem solving

• Helpful during active listening

• Ways to make a new friend

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A struggle, mental or physical, between two characters

• man vs. self

• man vs. man

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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What is reporting?

• The same as tattling

• The same as snitching

• Getting help from someone to solve a problem

• Trying to get someone in trouble

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A struggle between a character and mother nature

• man vs. self

• man vs. man

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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Joe and Rashaad are good friends. During PE, Joe often makes jokes about Rashaad. Joe laughs and thinks it's funny, but it is starting to bother Rashaad. What should Rashaad do?

• Hope Joe stops on his own.

• Ask an adult to handle it for him.

• Say something mean back to Joe next time.

• Let Joe know that it's starting to bother him and ask him to stop.

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A struggle between a character and the laws or beliefs of a group

• man vs. self

• man vs. man

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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Ana and Kim are in the same class. During group work, Ana kept talking over Kim. Ana had a lot to say, but Kim felt like she wasn't getting a chance to share her thoughts. Kim should:

• Talk louder so Ana gets the point.

• Say something like, 'Ana, I'm feeling frustrated when you talk while I'm talking because I'm not getting a chance to share. I need you to wait your turn please.'

• Give up trying and sit quietly.

• Raise your hand so your teacher will come deal with it.

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Two boys get into a fist fight is an example of what type of conflict?

• man vs. man

• man vs. self

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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A family member keeps doing something that is really upsetting you. What could you do to solve the problem?

• All of these!

• Approach them calmly and ask to talk about it.

• Use a strategy to get out of the red zone before bringing it up.

• Use 'I statements' to explain how you feel and what you would like to be different.

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"A family hides in a storm shelter during a tornado" is an example of what type of conflict?

• man vs. man

• man vs. self

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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"A woman is tempted to steal to feed her children" is an example of what type of conflict?

• man vs. man

• man vs. self

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society

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"A doctor is in a hurry and runs a red light" is an example of what type of conflict?

• man vs. man

• man vs. self

• man vs. nature

• man vs. society