Top 20 Lesson 5: Seeing Things Differently

We all see things the same

• True

• False

What is a paradigm?

• The patterned way we see reality

• How reality actually is

• How we all have the same perspective

Paradigms are from your own perspective

• True

• False

• Sometimes

paradigms influence our

• Perspective

  emotions

  actions

• Friends

  grades

  others perspectives

• Abilities

  Weaknesses

  friends

Who thinks they know

Think they are always RIGHT.

Believe someone else is WRONG.

Blame someone or something.

Lose power to make a change.

Stay stuck in yuck.

Change nothing. 

• Bottom 80's

• Top 20's

• Middle 50's

Who Knows they don’t always know.

        Stays CURIOUS.

Ask questions.

Listens.

Keeps power to make a change.

Sees more or differently.

Gets better results.

• Top 20's

• bottom 80's

• middle 50's

Who needs to be right, they blame and stay stuck in yuck.

• Top 20's

• Bottom 80's

• everyone

Who plays the curious card, does research, and gets better results

• Top 20's

• Bottom 80's

• Middle 50's

How do we create a paradigm shift? See things differently.

• 1.  Create a crisis.

  2.  Don't ask others. 

  3.  Blame others.

  4.  Say “Maybe.”

• 1.  See a crisis.

  2.  Ask others how they see it and ignore them. 

  3.  Stay stuck in yuck.

  4.  Blame others

• 1.  See a crisis.

  2.  Ask others how they see it. 

  3.  Change roles.

  4.  Say “Maybe.”

Everyone has the same perspective

• True

• False