What If Everybody Said That?

What is something you could say that would make someone feel proud?

• I'm so impressed by your hard work and dedication. You should be really proud of yourself.

• You're not as bad as I thought you were.

• I guess you did okay, considering your abilities.

• I can't believe you actually accomplished something for once.

What is something you could say that would make someone feel like people cared?

• I'm here for you, how can I help?

• Stop being so sensitive, it's not a big deal

• You're on your own, I have my own issues to deal with

• I don't care about your problems

What is something you could say that would make someone feel included?

• We don't want you here.

• You're not welcome.

• You don't belong with us.

• We would love for you to join us.

The art teacher told the main character to apologize when she laughed and said her drawings didn't look like dogs. What could she have said?

• I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend you.

• I was just joking, don't take it seriously.

• Your drawings are terrible, you should apologize to me.

• I don't care if you're offended, I'm just being honest.

Why do you think people sometimes say mean things about how people look?

• Out of jealousy or envy

• To make the other person feel bad

• Because they are genuinely mean-spirited

• Insecurity or desire to feel better about themselves

What are some words of encouragement you could use to make someone feel proud of their accomplishments?

• You should be ashamed of what you've achieved.

• I don't see what's so special about what you did.

• You should be really proud of what you've achieved!

• You didn't really accomplish much, did you?

How can you show someone that you care about them through your words?

• Being critical and judgmental

• Expressing love, appreciation, and support

• Ignoring them and their feelings

• Using harsh and hurtful words

What are some ways to make sure everyone feels included in a group or activity?

• Ignore the opinions of others

• Encourage open communication, actively listen to others, respect diverse perspectives, and create a welcoming environment.

• Only listen to people who are similar to you

• Create an exclusive environment for certain individuals

If the main character didn't want to apologize, what could she have done instead to handle the situation?

• Blame the other person and refuse to take any responsibility

• Have a calm conversation and explain her perspective

• Yell and argue with the other person

• Ignore the situation and walk away

What are some reasons why people might feel the need to criticize others' appearances?

• Kindness, empathy, understanding

• Boredom, lack of self-awareness, lack of manners

• Respect, admiration, appreciation

• Insecurity, jealousy, societal pressure, or a desire to feel superior