Understanding Guilt, Shame, and Fear

16. What are the 3 different worldviews discussed in the video?

• • D. Win/Lose, Rich/Poor, Quiet/Loud

• • A. Peace/War, Light/Dark, Good/Evil

• • C. Happy/Sad, Weak/Strong, Kind/Mean

• • B. Guilt/Innocence, Fear/Power, Shame/Honor

Answer explanation

The correct answer is B. Guilt/Innocence, Fear/Power, Shame/Honor, as these represent distinct worldviews that shape moral and social perspectives, unlike the other options which do not align with the discussed themes.

Which type of culture did you grow up in guilt/innocence, shame/honor, or fear/power?

18. Which cultures typically have a guilt/innocence worldview?

• • Asian cultures

• • Middle Eastern cultures

• • Tribal cultures

• Western cultures

Answer explanation

Western cultures typically emphasize individualism and personal responsibility, leading to a guilt/innocence worldview. In contrast, Asian, Middle Eastern, and tribal cultures often focus on community and relational dynamics.

In a guilt/innocence culture, what’s the big deal?

• Having a big family

• Staying on the right side of the rules

• Keeping spirits happy by giving them treats

• Getting the Best grades to honor your family

Answer explanation

In a guilt/innocence culture, the focus is on adhering to societal rules and norms. Therefore, 'Staying on the right side of the rules' is crucial, as it reflects one's moral standing and acceptance within the community.

What do people do if they mess up in a guilt/innocence culture?

• Say sorry and hope for the best

• Power up with cool spells

• Face a punishment to make things right

• Wear a silly hat

Answer explanation

In a guilt/innocence culture, individuals typically face a punishment to make things right when they mess up. This reflects the societal expectation of accountability and rectifying wrongs.

How does Jesus handle the woman caught breaking the rules?

• Gives her a high-five

• Tells everyone to throw rocks

• Forgives her and lets her go

• Ignores her

Answer explanation

Jesus shows compassion by forgiving the woman caught breaking the rules and allowing her to go free, rather than condemning her or encouraging violence.

What’s the best news for people feeling guilty in a guilt/innocence culture?

• Jesus is like a super lawyer who forgives sins!

• They get a prize for trying

• Spirits become their friends

• They get new clothes

Answer explanation

In a guilt/innocence culture, the best news is that Jesus offers forgiveness, acting as a 'super lawyer' who absolves sins, providing relief from guilt and a path to innocence.

19. Which cultures typically hold a shame/honor worldview?

• Tribal cultures

• Middle Eastern and Asian cultures

• Western cultures

• Scandinavian cultures

Answer explanation

Middle Eastern and Asian cultures often emphasize a shame/honor worldview, where social status and family reputation are paramount. This contrasts with Western and Scandinavian cultures, which typically prioritize individualism.

What’s the big deal in a shame/honor culture?

• Reputation—keeping that honor strong! Do good and do it right!

• Winning at games no matter how you do it

• Getting good grades- cheating and detention are fine too

• Eating the most food at dinner

Answer explanation

In a shame/honor culture, reputation is paramount. The correct choice emphasizes the importance of maintaining honor through good actions, reflecting societal values that prioritize integrity and respect.

In a shame/honor culture, what happens if you mess up?

• You get a second chance

• Only you feel bad

• It’s a big deal for your whole family/community

• Nothing much

Answer explanation

In a shame/honor culture, mistakes reflect on the entire family or community, not just the individual. Therefore, messing up is significant and can lead to communal repercussions, making it a big deal for everyone involved.