Mastering Conversation Skills

What is a good way for Arjun to start a conversation with Abigail?

• Discuss a recent news event.

• Ask for their opinion on a controversial topic.

• Start with a compliment about their appearance.

• Ask an open-ended question.

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Why might some people find it hard to talk to strangers?

• They enjoy meeting new people.

• They are always confident in social situations.

• Social anxiety and fear of judgment.

• They have a lot of friends already.

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How can you make a conversation more interesting?

• Ask open-ended questions and share personal stories.

• Only talk about yourself

• Stick to small talk topics

• Avoid asking questions

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What types of questions can you ask to keep a conversation going?

• Request a summary of their day

• Ask yes or no questions

• Inquire about their favorite color

• Ask open-ended questions, follow-up questions, and inquire about interests.

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Why is it important to listen when someone else is talking?

• It is important to listen to show respect, foster understanding, and enhance communication.

• It is important to listen only when you agree with the speaker.

• Listening is not necessary if you already know the topic.

• Listening can lead to misunderstandings and confusion.

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How can you encourage someone who is shy to speak up?

• Only allow them to speak in large groups without support.

• Criticize them for not speaking up more often.

• Ignore their presence and let them figure it out on their own.

• Create a supportive environment and engage them in one-on-one conversations.

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What should you do if you run out of things to say?

• Ask open-ended questions or share a related story.

• Repeat what the other person just said

• Change the subject abruptly

• Stay silent and avoid eye contact

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How can you show that you are interested in what someone is saying?

• Look at your phone while they talk.

• Maintain eye contact and ask follow-up questions.

• Interrupt the speaker frequently.

• Nod without responding to their points.

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What are some topics that are safe to discuss with new people?

• Controversial current events

• Politics and religion

• Interests, hobbies, travel, food, and general observations.

• Personal financial issues

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CCSS.L.3.6

How can you handle a conversation with someone much older than you?

• Use slang and informal language throughout the conversation

• Interrupt frequently to assert your point

• Show respect, listen actively, and engage thoughtfully.

• Avoid eye contact to seem disinterested

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CCSS.RL.8.3