Understanding Lying in Families

Why do kids sometimes lie?

• To make friends

• To stay out of trouble

• To learn new things

• To help others

What is one effect of lying on family trust?

• It strengthens trust

• It breaks trust

• It has no effect

• It makes trust unnecessary

How can families handle lying better?

• Ignore the lies

• Talk about honesty

• Encourage more lying

• Avoid discussing rules

What happens when lying creates distance in a family?

• Families become closer

• Families work best

• Lying builds walls between family members

• Everyone feels happy

What is a natural result of lying according to the text?

• Losing TV time

• Letting natural problems happen on their own

• Having a family meeting

• Fixing both problems

What should a family meeting involve when someone lies?

• Ignoring the lie

• Punishing the person immediately

• Admitting the lie and discussing feelings

• Giving rewards for honesty

What is a logical (not natural) consequence of lying about homework?

• Getting a poor grade

• Missing favorite activities

• Not understanding the lesson

• Feeling guilty

What might happen naturally if someone lies about breaking a toy?

• The toy gets fixed automatically

• Family members feel sad and confused

• The person gets a new toy

• The lie is forgotten

What is one way to earn trust back after lying?

• Lying again

• Ignoring the problem

• Showing honest behavior

• Blaming someone else

What is a natural consequence of telling a "Chore Lie"?

• Not being able to find things when needed

• Getting an extra cleaning chore

• Having room checks for a week

• Pulling everything out and cleaning properly