Spotting the red flags in relationship

Which of the following is important to consider when choosing a friend or partner based on their habits and behaviours?

• Whether their habits and behaviours appeal to you or make you dislike them

• Their physical appearance only

• Their financial status only

• Their hobbies only

A person’s habit or behaviour can have a particularly positive or negative impact on a relationship. What is an example of this?

• A friend’s constant support strengthens the relationship.

• Ignoring someone’s birthday improves the relationship.

• Being dishonest always leads to positive outcomes.

• Never communicating helps build trust.

Red and green flags are indicators of what?

• Warning and positive signs

• Types of sports teams

• Different types of fruits

• Traffic signals only

For each pair of examples, decide if they represent green or red flags. Which of the following is a redder flag: a person who dwells on their past misfortunes in every conversation, or a person who steers clear of personal topics like friendships and pastime preferences?

• A person who dwells on their past misfortunes in every conversation

• A person who steers clear of personal topics like friendships and pastime preferences

• Both are equally red flags

• Neither is a red flag

For each pair of examples, decide if they represent green or red flags. Which of the following is a greener flag: a person turns a blind eye to trivial disagreements OR a person finds playing hot and cold unacceptable?

• A person turns a blind eye to trivial disagreements is a greener flag.

• A person finds playing hot and cold unacceptable is a greener flag.

• Both are equally green flags.

• Neither is a green flag.

Which of the following is a green flag in a relationship?

• A person is clear and upfront about the dealbreakers in a relationship.

• A person hides their true feelings to avoid conflict.

• A person refuses to compromise during disagreements.

• A person avoids discussing important issues.

Which of the following is a 'redder' flag: a person always expresses themselves in a way that raises eyebrows OR a person comes off as quick-tempered and self-centred?

• A person comes off as quick-tempered and self-centred

• A person always expresses themselves in a way that raises eyebrows

• Both are equally red flags

• Neither is a red flag

A 'beige flag' in the context of relationships most likely refers to:

• A trait or behavior that is neither positive nor negative, but rather unremarkable or boring.

• A warning sign of a serious problem in a relationship.

• A sign of a very positive and exciting trait in a partner.

• A signal that someone is ready for a long-term commitment.

A beige flag is a concern if people ________ and it makes them furious but the other person doesn’t want to change.

• find it impossible to overlook

• enjoy it immensely

• rarely notice it

• are completely unaware of it

A beige flag isn’t a concern if people ________.

• focus on the good sides of each other and their love

• ignore all problems in the relationship

• never communicate with each other

• always avoid conflicts