TED: Don't call people out -- call them in | Loretta J. Ross

The speaker shares their journey from monitoring hate groups to promoting a culture of 'calling in' rather than 'calling out.' They emphasize the importance of empathy, compassion, and forgiveness in human rights work. The talk contrasts the divisive nature of calling out with the inclusive approach of calling in, encouraging conversations over confrontations. The speaker also introduces 'calling on' as a method to challenge others without aggression, highlighting the power of forgiveness and personal growth.

What was the speaker's initial reason for attending Ku Klux Klan rallies?

• To support the Klan's activities

• To learn about their culture

• To monitor hate groups as part of her job

• To protest against the Klan

Who was the speaker's mentor that influenced her journey from hate to love?

• Reverend CT Vivian

• Martin Luther King Jr.

• Dazon Dixon Gilo

• Sonya Renee Taylor

What is the main difference between a movement and a cult, according to the speaker?

• A movement is based on a single thought

• A cult encourages diverse thoughts

• A movement involves diverse thoughts moving in the same direction

• A cult is open to new ideas

What is the primary goal of 'calling in' as described by the speaker?

• To ignore the person's actions

• To invite someone into a conversation with love

• To publicly shame someone

• To agree with everything the person says

What is a common reason people engage in 'calling out' according to the speaker?

• To express love and compassion

• To encourage personal growth

• To feel a sense of belonging

• To hold powerful people accountable

What should one consider before deciding to 'call in' someone?

• Whether they are in a healed enough space

• If they have enough time

• Whether they agree with the person

• If they want to avoid any interaction

What is the 'calling on' approach as described by the speaker?

• Challenging the person to be better

• Ignoring the person's behavior

• Agreeing with the person's viewpoint

• Publicly shaming the person

What is one of the most effective expressions of 'calling in' according to the speaker?

• Public shaming

• Forgiveness

• Ignoring the issue

• Agreeing with the person

How did the speaker respond to Uncle Frank's racist comments at the family reunion?

• By ignoring him

• By agreeing with him

• By asking him a question to reflect on his words

• By calling him out publicly

What lesson does the speaker emphasize about fighting hate?

• It should be done with anger

• It should be fun

• It should be avoided at all costs

• It is a waste of time