How to Deal with Criticism

The video discusses the inevitability of criticism and its value in personal growth. It outlines three internal checks to evaluate criticism: mindset, source, and nature. The speaker advises on how to respond to criticism by being receptive and evaluating its alignment with personal priorities. The importance of balancing feedback from different sources is emphasized, and the speaker shares personal experiences to illustrate these points.

Why does the speaker believe criticism is valuable?

• It helps in pleasing others.

• It is a way to avoid mistakes.

• It is a tool for personal growth and improvement.

• It is a method to gain popularity.

What mindset should one have when receiving criticism?

• To argue with the critic.

• To ignore the criticism.

• To use criticism for personal growth.

• To make the critic happy.

What should you consider about the source of criticism?

• If they are older than you.

• Whether they are wealthy.

• If you know and trust them.

• Whether they are famous.

How can you determine the nature of criticism?

• By the tone of voice used.

• By the length of the criticism.

• By the number of people who agree with it.

• By whether it aims to build you up or tear you down.

What is the first step in responding to criticism?

• Take a deep breath and listen.

• Write down the criticism.

• Ignore the critic.

• Defend yourself immediately.

Why is it important to ask questions when receiving criticism?

• To show that you are defensive.

• To clarify and understand the feedback better.

• To prove the critic wrong.

• To change the subject.

What should you do if criticism does not align with your priorities?

• Consider it but focus on your priorities.

• Ignore it completely.

• Change your priorities to match the criticism.

• Argue with the critic.