TED: Is civility a sham? | Teresa Bejan

The speaker discusses the concept of civility, initially viewing it as insincere but later recognizing its essential role in tolerant societies. The talk explores the offensive nature of disagreement, the misuse of civility as a tool for disengagement, and the historical context of civility crises. The speaker introduces 'mere civility' as a necessary virtue for managing fundamental disagreements without destroying the possibility of a shared future.

What was the speaker's initial opinion on civility?

• It is essential for society.

• It is a form of respect.

• It is unimportant.

• It is a form of politeness.

According to the speaker, why is disagreement inherently offensive?

• Because it challenges our intelligence.

• Because it is always based on bad faith.

• Because it is a sign of disrespect.

• Because it is a form of politeness.

What is a common misconception about civility?

• It is a form of courage.

• It is about tolerating disagreements.

• It is a synonym for politeness.

• It is essential for tolerant societies.

How is civility often used in modern discourse?

• To promote diversity.

• To avoid arguments.

• To encourage politeness.

• To engage with opponents.

What historical event does the speaker associate with the first modern crisis of civility?

• The Protestant Reformation

• The French Revolution

• The American Revolution

• The Industrial Revolution

What is 'mere civility' according to the speaker?

• A way to avoid conflict.

• A form of respect for authority.

• A high standard of politeness.

• A basic level of civility to allow disagreement.

How does 'mere civility' relate to courage?

• It requires avoiding disagreements.

• It involves confronting opponents respectfully.

• It means staying present and disagreeable.

• It is about being polite in all situations.

What does the speaker suggest is the wrong way to practice civility?

• Engaging with those who disagree.

• Avoiding arguments and isolating oneself.

• Promoting diversity and tolerance.

• Encouraging open dialogue.

What is the speaker's final advice on practicing civility?

• Focus on politeness and respect.

• Avoid those who disagree with you.

• Isolate yourself from opposing views.

• Engage with those who fundamentally disagree with you.

What does the speaker believe is the true purpose of civility?

• To allow for fundamental disagreements.

• To promote politeness.

• To ensure everyone agrees.

• To avoid conflict.