I Must Stop Saying But

The video explores the impact of the word 'but' in communication, illustrating how it can negate previous statements and affect relationships. It provides a technical explanation of 'but' as a conjunction and shares a personal story to highlight its impact. Alternatives to 'but' are discussed to improve communication, concluding with advice on speaking with kindness and consideration.

What is the primary function of 'but' as a conjunction?

• To emphasize the previous statement

• To introduce a contrasting idea

• To introduce a similar idea

• To conclude a discussion

What is the impact of using 'but' on the initial statement?

• It has no effect on the initial statement

• It repeats the initial statement

• It strengthens the initial statement

• It invalidates the initial statement

How did the use of 'but' affect the narrator's relationship with Nick?

• It strengthened their bond

• It caused misunderstandings and emotional distress

• It had no impact

• It made their communication more effective

What is one strategy mentioned to replace 'but' in a sentence?

• Using 'and' to add more context

• Ignoring the contrasting idea

• Repeating the statement

• Using 'but' more frequently

What coping strategy did the narrator and Nick use to resolve their differences?

• Writing letters to each other

• Seeking external help

• Ignoring the issues

• Talking things through without shouting

Which word can be used as an alternative to 'but' to avoid abruptness?

• Furthermore

• Moreover

• However

• Therefore

Why is it important to choose words carefully when communicating with important people in your life?

• Because they always understand your intentions

• Because words can impact people in different ways

• Because they are mind readers

• Because it doesn't matter what words you use