Understanding Hoovering in Relationships

What is the primary goal of hoovering in a relationship?

• To provide genuine love and support

• To control and manipulate the victim

• To encourage independence

• To foster mutual respect

Which of the following is a sign of hoovering involving promises?

• Making promises but failing to follow through

• Avoiding making any promises

• Making promises and exceeding expectations

• Consistently keeping promises

What is a common tactic used by narcissists to maintain contact?

• Non-stop contact and frequent messaging

• Giving space and time

• Respecting boundaries

• Encouraging independence

What is 'love bombing' in the context of hoovering?

• A genuine expression of love

• A tactic involving excessive gifts and declarations

• A method to encourage personal growth

• A way to resolve conflicts

How does gaslighting relate to hoovering?

• It encourages self-awareness

• It involves clear communication

• It promotes healthy dialogue

• It is a form of subtle manipulation

What is a common hoovering tactic involving crises?

• Preventing crises from occurring

• Creating or exaggerating crises to gain attention

• Resolving crises effectively

• Ignoring crises altogether

What does pretending everything is fine signify in hoovering?

• Seeking professional help

• Resolving conflicts amicably

• Acknowledging issues openly

• Ignoring problems and acting normal

What should you do if you suspect someone is hoovering you?

• Encourage more interaction

• Confront them directly

• Seek support and limit contact

• Ignore the situation

What is the recommended action if you feel someone's life is at risk due to hoovering?

• Handle it personally

• Wait for the situation to resolve itself

• Contact the authorities

• Ignore the situation

What is the main message of the video regarding personal well-being?

• Your well-being is not important

• Ensuring your well-being is selfish

• Your well-being is a priority

• Your well-being should be ignored