WorksheetsHabit 5: Seek First to Understand , Then to Be Understood
Total questions: 17
Worksheet time: 7mins
What is Habit 5 about?
Being proactive
Communication
Figthing
Resolving problems
Which one is Habit 5?
Synergize
Be proactive
Seek first to understand, then to be understood
Begin with the end in mind
What can you do to develop this habit?
Try to understand people more, listening to them and paying attention to them
It`s impossible. I ain't Superman
In the long run, my friends won't be around a lot. Why should I pay attention to them?
I prefer not to do it
What is the deepest need of the human heart?
Love
Passion
To be Understood
To Understand others
Spacing out is...
someone is talking but you ignore them because your mind is zoned out
you're not actually paying attention but you are pretending you are
you pay attention to part of the conversation that interests you
you pay attention to the words but not the point of the story
you apply everything you hear to your own point of view
Pretend listening is...
someone is talking but you ignore them because your mind is zoned out
you're not actually paying attention but you are pretending you are
you pay attention to part of the conversation that interests you
you pay attention to the words but not the point of the story
you apply everything you hear to your own point of view
Selective listening is...
someone is talking but you ignore them because your mind is zoned out
you're not actually paying attention but you are pretending you are
you pay attention to part of the conversation that interests you
you pay attention to the words but not the point of the story
you apply everything you hear to your own point of view
Word listening is...
someone is talking but you ignore them because your mind is zoned out
you're not actually paying attention but you are pretending you are
you pay attention to part of the conversation that interests you
you pay attention to the words but not the point of the story
you apply everything you hear to your own point of view
Self-centered listening is...
someone is talking but you ignore them because your mind is zoned out
you're not actually paying attention but you are pretending you are
you pay attention to part of the conversation that interests you
you pay attention to the words but not the point of the story
you apply everything you hear to your own point of view
What is Genuine listening?
First listen with your eyes, heart and ears
Whenever I listen to my friends
Learn to listen to other people
All of them
What is mirroring?
Repeat back in your own words what the other person is saying
Repeat back exactly what the other person is saying
Not responding to the speaker
Something that hangs on the wall that you look into
Why is commmunicating with your parent important?
So you may understand their point of view and they can understand yours.
So they can buy you things .
So they can learn to read your mind.
So they can trust you.
When can I demostrate myself that this habit is part of my life?
Trying to understand other people
Working in teams
Planning your life ahead
Sooner or later, I'll do it.
Select a example of Habit 5
I ignore my friend. I don't care what he says. In other words, I will prioritize myself above all others
I only listen to parts of his story. Tha way, I get the main idea and ignore him. He isn't equally important as compared to me
I "pretend" to listen to my friend. Why should I care?
I listen to my friend. That way, he listens to me
Which types of poor listening is the example ?
Someone is talking and you think about how bad their actions are.
Selective listening
Spacing out
Self-centered
Judging
What is this an example of...a classmate was telling you about the smart watch they got for Christmas and you responded with, "I got that last year but this year I got the iphone Xmax"
Spacing out listening
Word listening
Pretend listening
Selective listening
Self centered listening
What is this an example of...your friend is telling you about their Friday night but instead you are thinking about your dog that is at home all alone.
Spacing out listening
Word listening
pretend listening
selective listening
self centered listening
