Habit 5: Seek first to _______________________, then to be _____________________.

Name that attitude:

"Everyone can win!"

"There's plenty of success to go around."

"Life is an all-you-can-eat buffet!"

Name that attitude:

full of pride

uses other people

gets ahead at the expense of other people

gossips, spreads rumors

jealous and insecure

Name that attitude:

"I constantly find myself saying that I'm dumb."

"I'd rather take the blame than get into an argument."

sets low expectations

gives in to peer pressure

Name that attitude:

"If I'm going down, then you're going with me."

• wants to win at any cost
• possessive in relationships
• often jealous
• only feels secure when they're constantly with another person

Two habits that, like tumors, can slowly eat you away from the inside are:

Personal security is the _____________________ for thinking win-win.

"________________________ are the stuff life's made of."

T/F Competition is always a good thing!

When is competition a "good thing?"

To what object does the author compare a win-win person?

To what object does the author compare a lose-lose person?

To what object does the author compare the win-lose person?

To what object does the author compare the lose-win person?

In what type of relationship does one behave in the following ways?

"I need other people to like me, so I can feel good about myself."

"Control of every situation helps me feel safe and secure."

Feeling that you’re not good enough or comparing yourself to others are signs of low _______-___________.

Sean Covey, author of "7 Habits for Teens," uses a comparison between two trees (poplar and bamboo) to explain the differences between how we develop as individuals. "We're all on different development timetables."

This tool of comparison is called _____________________.

According to the text, "The deepest need of the human heart is to be ____________________."

In this style of poor listening, the "listener ONLY pays attention to what interests them."

In this style of poor listening, one "listens ONLY from THEIR OWN point-of-view."

In this style of poor listening, one "listens ONLY to words and pays no attention to body language."

Finish the quote, "Unexpressed feelings never ______________."

What type of "messages" communicate best, according to the text?

True/False In a conflict, what one needs most is advice.

What is the role of a "mediator?"

Which of the following is a golden question to use during conflict?