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WorksheetsResolving Conflicts Quiz 2-5
Total questions: 19
Worksheet time: 5hrs 45mins
What is a conflict?
an agreement between two people
a race between two people to win a prize
is a strong disagreement or argument between people.
Who can you have a conflict with? (Check all that apply.)
a friend
a family member
a classmate
your pet
What 3 animals represented the types of responses to conflict?
turtle, owl, shark
rabbit, turtle, lion
rabbit, elephant, gorilla
turtle, frog, snake
If you are a "Turtle", how do you approach do you have to conflict?
You want to win at all costs.
You try to come up with solutions that benefit everyone
You avoid people or situations that make you feel uncomfortable.
If you are an "Owl", how do you approach do you have to conflict?
You want to win at all costs.
You try to come up with solutions that benefit everyone
You avoid people or situations that make you feel uncomfortable.
If you are a "Shark", how do you approach do you have to conflict?
You want to win at all costs.
You try to come up with solutions that benefit everyone
You avoid people or situations that make you feel uncomfortable.
Which of the following is the 1st Step in Resolving a Conflict?
Share your feelings. Talk it out with I-Messages.
Say you are sorry. Apologize for anything that might have been said or done during the conflict.
State the problem. Share what you see the problem is.
Calm down. This is a good time to use a coping skill.
Find a solution by working together.
Which of the following is the 2nd Step in Resolving a Conflict?
Share your feelings. Talk it out with I-Messages.
Say you are sorry. Apologize for anything that might have been said or done during the conflict.
State the problem. Share what you see the problem is.
Calm down. This is a good time to use a coping skill.
Find a solution by working together.
Which of the following is the 3rd Step in Resolving a Conflict?
Share your feelings. Talk it out with I-Messages.
Say you are sorry. Apologize for anything that might have been said or done during the conflict.
State the problem. Share what you see the problem is.
Calm down. This is a good time to use a coping skill.
Find a solution by working together.
Which of the following is the 4th Step in Resolving a Conflict?
Share your feelings. Talk it out with I-Messages.
Say you are sorry. Apologize for anything that might have been said or done during the conflict.
State the problem. Share what you see the problem is.
Calm down. This is a good time to use a coping skill.
Find a solution by working together.
Which of the following is the 5th Step in Resolving a Conflict?
Share your feelings. Talk it out with I-Messages.
Say you are sorry. Apologize for anything that might have been said or done during the conflict.
State the problem. Share what you see the problem is.
Calm down. This is a good time to use a coping skill.
Find a solution by working together.
Select all of the healthy methods for conflict resolution.
Choosing a win-win solution
Talking it out
Saying you are sorry
Calling each other names
Select all of the unhealthy methods for conflict resolution.
Putting yourself in the other person's shoes
Compromising
Not listening to the other person
Yelling at each other
If you cannot resolve your conflict, what could you do?
Get help from a parent, teacher, or friend.
Try to ignore the problem.
Decide you no longer want to be friends.
Get even.
(a) - Messages or - Statements are an effective way to communicate feelings about a situation. They are neutral and do not assign blame.
Read the scenario and write an I-Message using the structure provided.
You and a friend are having a sleepover. It is getting late and you are starting to get tired, but she wants to stay up later.
I feel _________ when _________ . I need _________ .
Read the scenario and write an I-Message using the structure provided.
You are frustrated because the music teacher keeps mispronouncing your name.
I feel _________ when _________ . I need _________ .
Change the following statement into an I-Message:
"You are so unfair! You always believe her over me even when she is lying!"
Read the scenario and write an I-Message using the structure provided.
You are frustrated because the music teacher keeps mispronouncing your name.
I feel _________ when _________ . I need _________ .
Change the following statement into an I-Message:
"You never hang out with me anymore. It's like you don't want to be friends anymore."
Read the scenario and write an I-Message using the structure provided.
You are frustrated because the music teacher keeps mispronouncing your name.
I feel _________ when _________ . I need _________ .
