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Total questions: 119

Worksheet time: 3hrs 28mins

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1.

You are in the red zone and a friend wants to resolve a conflict with you. You should:

a)

yell at them until they leave you alone

b)

roll your eyes and walk away

c)

ignore them completely

d)

tell them you are not ready to talk yet

2.

You are feeling frustrated by someone else's behavior. You should:

a)

use an I statement to explain how you feel ('I feel...')

b)

grumble under your breath and hope they get the point

c)

complain to someone else about them

d)

accuse them of being annoying ('You are...')

3.

Which is true about conflicts?

a)

The more people you involve, the better.

b)

Talking behind someone's back really helps.

c)

Asking to speak directly with the person you are mad at is a good first step.

d)

It's a good idea to tell all of your friends what the someone did to upset you, so they can be mad with you.

4.

Active listening is:

a)

All of these!

b)

Listening carefully to the other person's words.

c)

Taking time to understand the other person's perspective.

d)

Being patient and not interrupting.

5.

What type of resolution is best?

a)

Lose-Lose (no one gets what they want)

b)

Win-Lose (only one person gets what they want)

c)

Win-Win (both people benefit)

d)

No resolution (conflict continues)

6.

Blaming, yelling, avoiding, and eye rolling are:

a)

Great ideas for problem solving

b)

Common roadblocks to problem solving

c)

Helpful during active listening

d)

Ways to make a new friend

7.

What is reporting?

a)

The same as tattling

b)

The same as snitching

c)

Getting help from someone to solve a problem

d)

Trying to get someone in trouble

8.

Joe and Rashaad are good friends. During PE, Joe often makes jokes about Rashaad. Joe laughs and thinks it's funny, but it is starting to bother Rashaad. What should Rashaad do?

a)

Hope Joe stops on his own.

b)

Ask an adult to handle it for him.

c)

Say something mean back to Joe next time.

d)

Let Joe know that it's starting to bother him and ask him to stop.

9.

Ana and Kim are in the same class. During group work, Ana kept talking over Kim. Ana had a lot to say, but Kim felt like she wasn't getting a chance to share her thoughts. Kim should:

a)

Talk louder so Ana gets the point.

b)

Say something like, 'Ana, I'm feeling frustrated when you talk while I'm talking because I'm not getting a chance to share. I need you to wait your turn please.'

c)

Give up trying and sit quietly.

d)

Raise your hand so your teacher will come deal with it.

10.

A family member keeps doing something that is really upsetting you. What could you do to solve the problem?

a)

All of these!

b)

Approach them calmly and ask to talk about it.

c)

Use a strategy to get out of the red zone before bringing it up.

d)

Use 'I statements' to explain how you feel and what you would like to be different.

11.
How many styles of conflict resolution did we study?
a)
4
b)
5
c)
3
d)
6
12.
Which conflict resolution style is equivalent to burying your head in the sand?
a)
avoidance
b)
separation
c)
accommodating to requirements
d)
problem solving
13.
Which of the following conflict resolutions styles is NEVER effective?
a)
separation
b)
problem solving
c)
compromise
d)
accommodating to requirements
14.
Which conflict resolution style includes brain storming for solutions?
a)
separation
b)
problem solving
c)
avoidance
d)
compromise
15.
Which of the following is not a tip for active listening?
a)
sending signals
b)
asking questions
c)
feedback
d)
interrupting
16.
Which conflict resolution style is known as the last resort?
a)
avoidance
b)
accommodating to requirements
c)
separation
d)
problem solving
17.
Sending one message orally and another message with body language or tone is called:
a)
feedback
b)
correlation
c)
prefrontal lobes
d)
mixed messages
18.
___________ is an extreme form of prejudice:
a)
stereotyping
b)
name calling
c)
physical violence
d)
racism
19.
The conflict resolution style where two parties meet in the middle is:
a)
mid-line conflict
b)
compromise
c)
problem solving
d)
partnership resolution
20.
The most important component of conflict resolution is:
a)
not interrupting
b)
taking your time
c)
voicing your concerns
d)
using active listening
21.

What is a conflict?

a)

a problem (with 2 people who can't agree)

b)

when you wake up angry

c)

when you lose in a video game

22.

is it OKAY to feel strong emotions when a conflict arises?

a)

yes

b)

no

23.

Responding to a conflict with anger, rage, and violence can cause what?

a)

a school wide party

b)

the other person to act the same way

c)

you will win the argument

24.

If you get angry and show rage every time you have a conflict what can happen?

a)

people will want to be like you

b)

you will win a prize

c)

you will have a tough time keeping friends

d)

you will be the best kid in school

25.

When you get angry the first thing you should do is...

a)

stop and recognize what you are feeling

b)

punch something

c)

run away

d)

scream

26.

When faced with a conflict that makes you angry or upset a thing to do is...

a)

punch something

b)

throw something

c)

yell at someone

d)

count backwards from 10 and breath

27.

What should you do when discussing a conflict to help work it out?

a)

make eye contact

b)

nod to show your understanding

c)

listen

d)

all of the above

28.

In a conflict the enemy is...

a)

you

b)

the problem trying to be solved

c)

your friend

d)

your dog fluffy

29.

Someone who helps two people solve a conflict that is not part of it is...

a)

a medium

b)

a monk

c)

a mastermind

d)

a mediator

30.

If a compromise is made and there is no loser we end up with a_____?

a)

lose-lose situation

b)

win-lose situation

c)

a lose-win situation

d)

win-win situation

31.

When two or more want the same thing only one can have it.What is it called.

a)

Emotion

b)

Pick your battle

c)

Resources/Item

d)

Disagreement

32.

Often putting off a conflict for a short time can give you time to think about the conflict.You may decide that the conflict is unnecessary.What is it ?

a)

Other behavior

b)

Take a break

c)

Value

d)

Conflict

33.

You may feel emotional such as frustration , resentment ,jealousy or anger.

a)

Emotions

b)

Other behavior

c)

Emotions

d)

Disrespect

34.

Because of hurt feelings are usually reaction to rudeness or insensitivity.

a)

Other Behavior

b)

Disagreement

c)

Take a break

d)

Emotion

35.

Because of different ideas about what is important or how things should be done.

a)

Disagreement

b)

Others Behavior

c)

Values

d)

PICK YOUR BATTLES

36.

If you notice another person becoming angry,yelling or frustrated about a disagreement,then a conflict is happening.

a)

Take a Break

b)

Other Behavior

c)

Emotions

d)

Respect different opinions

37.

Is a disagreement with another person over an issue.

a)

Emotions

b)

Values

c)

Pick Your Battles

d)

Disagreement

38.

Decide which conflicts are important to you,and avoid getting into the conflicts that aren't important.

a)

Take a break

b)

Values

c)

Pick Your Battles

d)

Emotions

39.

Everyone has a right to his or her own opinion.You shouldn't feel the need to always change other people's opinion.

a)

Other Behaviors

b)

Respect different opinions

c)

Disagreement

d)

Values/items

40.

Is any clash of ideas or interests.

a)

Take a break

b)

Emotions

c)

Conflict

d)

Others Behavior

41.

A discussion to reach a solution to a conflict.

a)

Compromise

b)

Walk Away

c)

Collaboration

d)

Negotiation

42.

Is communication that is done by the body rather than by words.

a)

Body Language

b)

Collaboration

c)

Walk Away

d)

Compromise

43.

Is the ability to understand or identity with the ideas or feelings of another person or group.

a)

Walk Away

b)

Negotions

c)

Body Language

d)

Empathy

44.

Both sides gives things to come to an agreement.

a)

Compromise

b)

Negotiation

c)

Empathy

d)

Collaboration

45.

Scaring or controlling another person by using threats or physical force.

a)

Walk Away

b)

Negotions

c)

Compromise

d)

Collaborations

46.

Compromising is described as:

a)

Win / Win

b)

Win / Lose

c)

Win some / Lose some

d)

None of the Above

47.

Ahmed had an issue with his manager. Instead of talking to him, he called in sick and stayed home today. Ahmed is using:

a)

Competing

b)

Avoiding

c)

Compromising

d)

Accommodating

48.

Ali and Zain had a conflict about how to prepare a report and which graphs to use to display the data. This is an example of:

a)

Ego Conflict

b)

Task Conflict

c)

Personality Conflict

49.

Zahid has to give up on his point of view in a group meeting because he wanted to make sure his team members are all agreeing without delaying the project. This is an example of:

a)

Accommodating

b)

Collaborating

c)

Competing

d)

Avoiding

50.

Which of the following is something you can control?

a)

Reaction of a colleague

b)

Yelling at your colleague

c)

Traffic jams

d)

A difficult boss

51.

Which emotion is the worst when trying to resolve conflict?

a)

Sadness

b)

Amusement

c)

Rage

d)

Confusion

52.

What is one of the most extremely important skill in resolving a conflict?

a)

Talking

b)

Showing your emotions

c)

Listening

d)

Arguing

53.

A discussion done to reach a solution to a conflict is called:

a)

Negotiation

b)

Empathy

c)

Compromise

d)

Argument

54.

All are ways to avoid conflict except:

a)

Respect different opinions

b)

Take a break

c)

Empathy

d)

Pick up a fight

55.

What is a way to resolve conflict?

a)

Talking out your anger on someone else

b)

Yell at each other

c)

compromising

d)

Fighting

56.
Which of the following is not a myth about anger?
a)
Getting angry is the only way to get things done
b)
There are many ways to deal with anger
c)
Strongly confronting angry people will back them down
d)
Ignore it and it will go away
57.
"Controlling yourself" includes which of the following techniques?
a)
Holding your breathe
b)
Negative self-talk
c)
Counting to three
d)
Relaxing
58.
Which of the following is one of the most effective anger management techniques?
a)
Think before you speak
b)
Get some exercise
c)
Respond rather than react
d)
Use humor
59.
Which of the following is a sign of when to seek help?
a)
Knowing what anger is
b)
Determining what triggers your anger
c)
Responding in a passive-aggressive manner
d)
Exploring underlying feelings
60.
Learning better ways to communicate is a useful technique for anger management.
a)
True
b)
False
61.
While outwardly submissive, indecisive, and helpless, inside there may be inner conflict, tension, stress, and an inability to meet one's own needs fueling feelings of frustration and anger. This defines which type of behavior?
a)
Aggressive
b)
Passive-aggressive
c)
Passive
d)
Assertive
62.
This type of behavior involves expressing, beliefs, feelings, and preferences in a way which is direct, honest, and appropriate and shows a high degree of respect.
a)
Passive
b)
Assertive
c)
Aggressive
d)
Passive-aggressive
63.
Behavior that demands self-expression, attacks, or humiliates other people, generally in a way which shows lack of respect for others is which of the following?
a)
Aggressive
b)
Assertive
c)
Passive
d)
Passive-aggressive
64.
Which of the following is not one of the six types of difficult people?
a)
Uncooperative
b)
Consistent
c)
Lackadaisical
d)
Whining
65.
Which of the following is a strategy for dealing with difficult people?
a)
Stop wishing they were different
b)
Argue and don't acknowledge them
c)
Judge others prior to communication
d)
Listen to what is being said without keeping an open mind
66.

I forgot my lunch at home so my mom brought it to me.

The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

67.

I forgot my lunch at home so my mom brought it to me.

The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

68.

It is raining outside so I ran and got an umbrella. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

69.

Kevin got sick and went to the doctor. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

70.

Alec got a D on his test so he studied harder. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

71.

I dropped my cup of juice on the floor so I cleaned it up with a mop. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

72.

Malia hit her brother. Malia said she was sorry to her brother. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

73.

I broke my arm when I fell off the playground and had to have a cast put on it. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

74.

I broke my mom's cell phone and had to buy her a new one. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

75.

Jessica was worried about being the new kid at school so she made friends in the neighborhood before school started. The red part of the sentence is the

a)

conflict

b)

resolution

76.

How a character solves an issue is called the...

a)

resolution

b)

conflict

77.

The problem that a character has to face in a story is called a...

a)

resolution

b)

conflict

78.

Jon came home from school and he was very hungry. He decided to see if there was anything in the cabinet to eat. He checked the shelf and couldn't find any chips or crackers. He looked in another cabinet and there weren't any snack there either. Finally he looked in the refrigerator and there he found some apples to eat.

What is the resolution?

a)

Jon found apples to eat.

b)

Jon likes chips.

c)

Jon was hungry

79.

Stacey had a lot of fun riding her bike one sunny afternoon. She was just about to ride home when she hit a patch of loose rocks. Stacey skidded and then tipped over on her bike, cutting her knee. After cleaning the scrape, Stacey put a bandage on her knee.

What was the resolution?

a)

She had a lot of fun.

b)

There were rocks.

c)

She put a bandaid on her knee

80.

Caleb hadn't gotten any sleep for the past few nights. He was really tired tonight. He didn't know if he would be able to sleep. He decided to close the curtains in his room to keep out the light and wear ear plugs to keep out the noise. Caleb slept very well this night.

What was the conflict?

a)

Caleb couldn't sleep

b)

Caleb slept very well

c)

Caleb wore ear plugs

81.
Which of these options would be a good solution to the problem:
    Wendy can't reach the package of lightbulbs in the garage.
a)
She could just stay in the dark.
b)
She could stack random things to create steps.
c)
She could use a broom to knock the box down.
d)
She could ask somebody taller for help.
82.
Here is a solution. What could be the problem?
   Ted used glue on his skateboard.
a)
Ted can't ride a skateboard well.
b)
Ted fell and broke his glasses.
c)
Ted snapped a wheel off his board.
d)
Ted is clumsy and scratched his board on the sidewalk.
83.

What does conflict resolution mean?

a)

how to talk about a problem and be friends after

b)

how to find the key to life, the universe, and ultimate power

c)

how to find a peaceful ending to our conflicts, fights, or problems.

d)

how to win fights against your friends

84.

What is something positive you can do when stressed?

a)

bite someone

b)

say your magic word

c)

write on your school desk

d)

throw things

85.

What are positive ways we can calm down? (choose all you think are correct)

a)

punch a pillow

b)

yell at someone

c)

take deep breaths

d)

listen to music

86.

What is "attitude"?

a)

I don't know

b)

your positive energy, and your smile

c)

what you give your dad after he takes your laptop

d)

how your body acts, and what people see

87.

Is it okay to feel angry?

a)

Maybe

b)

Yes

c)

No

d)

Never. Santa Claus will not come

88.

What is true about conflict resolution? (choose all that you think are correct)

a)

Resolving conflicts is not always easy

b)

Big conflicts can start from small problems

c)

Sometimes it is okay to not talk, and wait until later

d)

It is good if you stay quiet and never talk

89.

Is it okay to hurt other people's feelings because we are hurt?

a)

Sometimes

b)

No

c)

Yes

d)

Never

90.

What can you tell a friend who is angry?

a)

"Stop it!"

b)

"What's wrong with you?"

c)

"Be quiet"

d)

"It's okay. Remember your magic word!"

91.

What can stop a fight?

a)

Eating cookies

b)

Acting healthy ways

c)

Holding your teddy bear

d)

Getting very angry

92.

One aim of conflict resolution is to ______ (choose all you think are correct)

a)

stop spreading the hurt.

b)

go to the moon.

c)

make everyone friends again.

d)

help everyone calm down.

93.

When we are talking about friendship, what does a CONFLICT mean?

a)

A war

b)

Getting along great every day

c)

Disagreements, Arguments, and Fights

d)

Means Texts only

94.

ONE of the reasons conflicts start is because of some us being COMPETITIVE. Which of these is a good example of being competitive?

a)

"But I wanted to play with the tablet next"

b)

"It's my turn to sit in the front seat"

c)

"Give me that, you don't even know how to use it"

d)

"NO, I won the race! You cheated... I came in first"

95.

Another reason Conflict starts is because of FRUSTRATION. WE sometimes think we are kings and queens and everyone of our wishes should be granted and given to us. Which is the best example of this below?

a)

"It's my turn to ride the scooter"

b)

"I CANT believe you brought her a red bracelet, but you only brought me a sticker! You like her more than me, we're not friends anymore."

c)

"You used the playstation yesterday, today its for me."

d)

"Save me a piece of the cake or else"

96.

Sometimes conflicts start because of MISINFORMATION, or believing rumors. Which below is the best example of MISINFORMATION.

a)

"Melissa told me you were telling everyone in the cafeteria that I wasn't good at basketball. I can't believe you would go behind my back... you know what, we are not friends anymore!"

b)

"Give me the jump rope because you don't even know how to use it."

c)

"That's mine!"

d)

"You can't sit here, we are not friends"

97.

Being bossy is something that causes conflict because sometimes we believe that people should be following our orders... which of these is an example of being bossy?

a)

"I won the fortnite battle yesterday, I'm the fortnite champion of the world!"

b)

"It's my turn today... you always want to keep the controller"

c)

"She said that you were wearing ugly shoes"

d)

"So you better not talk or text her anymore... you either stop talking to her or we won't be friends anymore. Block her on Instagram now!"

98.

When there is a conflict, you can either react NEGATIVE or POSITIVE. A NEGATIVE response is one that is made quickly and with a lot of emotion. A POSITIVE response is made calmly and with talking and listening.

a)

True

b)

False

99.

What is an example of a NEGATIVE response?

a)

"Listen... lets sit down and talk about it"

b)

"I really dont like when you come in to my room because this is my privacy. Please knock"

c)

"If you give me 3 minutes to finish my homework, you can come in my room"

d)

"I TOLD YOU TO GET OUT!!! YOU NEVER KNOCK!! GET OUT OF MY ROOM ALREADY!!"

100.

What is an example of a POSITIVE response?

a)

"LEAVE ME ALONE ALREADY!"

b)

"I know you want to play right now, but if you let me finish chatting with my friend, we can play in a little bit."

c)

"I'M NOT GOING TO PLAY OYOUR DUMB BABY GAME, GO AWAY"

d)

"THAT'S ENOUGH... GET OUT!"

101.

When we reply NEGATIVELY, it hurts our friendships and our relationships.

a)

True

b)

False

102.

When we react POSITIVELY, we build better relationships and stronger friendships.

a)

True

b)

False

103.

A COMPROMISE is when two people in a disagreement have a solution that is a WIN-WIN, where both get a little of what they wanted.

a)

True

b)

False

104.

A brother and sister are having an argument over a tablet... which would be a compromise solution?

a)

The little brother cries to his mom and the mom lets him use it all afternoon.

b)

The sister lets the brother use it first, then she takes a turn later on after her homework.

c)

The older sister hides the tablet from the little brother so he cant find.

d)

The mom takes the tablet away from both of them.

105.

Two friends are having an CONFLICT because one friend feels the other is not texting her like before. What is an example of a POSITIVE response and a COMPROMISE.

a)

They calmly talk about how they're feeling and agree to text each other on the weekends when they don't have homework.

b)

The upset friend just blocks the other one.

c)

The friends tells her "I'm not gonna text you everyday because I have a life and you don't."

d)

They stop being friends.

106.

A classmate tells you during art class that your picture is ugly. How can you react POSITIVELY?

4 lines
107.

Laura is always taking your favorite pencil to use in class. How can you react POSITIVELY?

4 lines
108.

You want the basketball and so does Juan.... what COMPROMISE can you have with him to solve the conflict?

4 lines
109.

One of your friends always makes you play the game he or she only wants to play... how can you react POSITVELY and COMPROMISE?

4 lines
110.

What is the definition of Conflict?

a)

The action or process of talking

b)

feeling or expressed

c)

is any clash of ideas or interest

d)

The action of working with someone

111.

What is the definition of collaboration

a)

feelings of pitty and sorrow

b)

the ability to understand and share the feelings

c)

the state or feeling of jealous

d)

the action of working with someone

112.

A discussion to reach a solution to a conflict

a)

Empathy

b)

Compromise

c)

Negotiation

113.

What are the 3 ways to avoid Conflict?

a)

Empathy

b)

Pick your battles

c)

Take a Break

d)

Respect different opinions

114.

What are the 3 signs of Conflict?

a)

Disagreement

b)

Behavior

c)

Emotions

d)

Values/Expectations

115.

If you notice another person becoming angry,yelling,or frustrated about a disagreement,then a conflict is happening

a)

Emotions

b)

Behavior

c)

Resources/Items

116.

What are the 4 strategies for resolving conflicts?

a)

Walk Away

b)

Body Language

c)

Compromise

d)

Negotiation

e)

Collaborations

117.

Different

a)

danger

b)

not the same

c)

difference of opinion

d)

feelings

118.

Mutual discussion of the terms of an agreement

a)

Domination

b)

Behavior

c)

Drama

d)

Negotiations

119.

Jealousy

a)

The feelings of jealous

b)

emotions

c)

Danger

d)

understandable

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