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WorksheetsSEL Healthy Relationships
Total questions: 50
Worksheet time: 53mins
Which of the following is a positive body languages to use when speaking?
Fold your arms or cross your legs
Stand behind a lecture and keep your body hidden
Keep your arms open and use gestures
Do not make eye contact
Which of following is a negative body language to use when speaking?
Fold your arms or cross your legs
Stand behind a lecture and keep your body hidden
Keep your arms open and use gestures
Do not make eye contact
Which of these is a communication skill?
Talking at the same time as someone else
Listening to what people say
Putting your fingers in your nose
What body language shows you are listening?
Turning away from speaker
Nodding and making eye contact
Looking out the window
What is verbal communication?
Talking to someone
Whens someone is talking and someone else is listening
When more than one person is talking
Use verbal noises to show you are listening
What is communication without words?
Sign language
Non-verbal communication
Gestures
Telepathy
When you're confused by something, it's best to ask for help.
True
False
One example of self-advocating is...
asking for more time on a test.
getting mad at the teacher.
blaming a bad grade on someone else.
Asking for help can be hard because you think you don't need help.
True
False
The best thing that could happen if you asked for help is...
you pass the class.
you graduate high school.
you go to college.
you get a raise at your job.
The worst thing that can happen when you ask for help is...
someone says, "Sorry, I can't help you right now."
the world explodes.
your brain literally melts out of your head.
Self-advocating is something that EVERYONE does in order to be successful.
True
False
Which of the following is NOT an example of self-advocacy?
Telling the teacher “I need a calculator for my math test.”
Highlighting my notes will help me understand the material.
Laying my head down on my desk when I don’t understand a math problem.
Recording the teacher’s lecture to make sure I get all the notes
Because self-advocacy it a skill, it can be......
memorized
easy for everyone
learned and strengthened
It is important to be ______ and ______ when asking for what you need.
clear and specific
loud and rude
threatening and harmful
timid and shy
I am a self advocate...
All of the time
Most of the time
Some of the time
On rare occassions
Very rarely, almost never
When confronted with something I don't know...
I look for answers on my own first, then ask if I still don't know.
I ask a question right away.
I'll ask someone I feel comfortable with later
I'll ask later if I remember.
I won't ask a question.
How do you feel about the statement below:
By knowing the rules I can better move forward and meet my goals and needs.
I wholly agree with the statement
I agree with the statement
I most agree with the statement
I disagree with the statement
I wholly disagree with the statement
What are the important factors in a healthy relationship?
Fear and submission
Communication, equality, respect, honesty
Tenacity and control
All of the above
What are the signs of a healthy relationship?
You're comfortable, happy, and able to express your feelings
You can share your problems and your successes
You don't feel threatened
All of the above
How can you solve a conflict without using violence?
Breathe, reflect, be respectful, listen, and talk it out
Respond the same way as the other person does
Share your perspective and ignore the others perspective
All of the above
Which are characteristics of an healthy relationship?
Zero tolerance for violence
Respect and trust
Equality
All of the above
Which of these is not a relationship protective factor?
Trust
Jealousy
Safety
Support
Obsession is okay in a relationship
True
False
Your partner accuses you of flirting or cheating when you hang out with others
Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
Your partner frequently compliments you on your outfits.
Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
Every time you make plans to be with friends your partner makes you stay home
Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
Your partner texts you more than you want them to and gets upset if you don't reply right away.
Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
You miss your partner when you are away from them but still enjoy what you are doing.
Healthy
Unhealthy
Abusive
Someone you care about trust and respect is a
friend
peer
co-worker
To believe a person is honest and reliable.
mistrust
trust
secretive
Students your own age are considered your
elders
friends
peers
siblings
Sarah never shows up when we have plans and then texts saying something came up, but never gives a reason. This relationship is unhealthy because:
She is clingy
She makes fun of you
She is unreliable
She threatens you
Check all the signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Supports your interests
Doesn't listen to your opinion
Makes you do things you don't feel good about
Isn't someone you can trust
Gives you space
A healthy relationship...
respects boundaries
doesn't put you down
is honest
all of the above
My girlfriend takes my phone and reads my texts.
Healthy
Unhealthy
If a relationship is becoming unhealthy, you should? (Check all that apply)
Consider ending the relationship
Talk to someone you trust and ask for advice
Just ignore the signs
Spend more time with other people
My friend keeps posting negative comments on social media, but says she's just joking. She keeps on doing it even after I told her how upset I was.
Healthy
Unhealthy
My friend wants me to tell her mom that she is spending the night at my house when she really isn't.
Healthy
Unhealthy
All friendships last forever.
True
False
Your values influence your choice of friends.
True
False
Old friends are not as important as new friends.
True
False
Being a good friend means you get to say mean things to your friends.
True
False
