Healthy or Unhealthy?

Your significant other says you don't really love him/her because you want to go to a movie with a friend instead of spending time alone with him/her.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Appreciates your passions and encourages you to do the things you love.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Miss your significant other or friend when you go on vacation with your family but you have a really good time anyway.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After having a great day, can't wait to tell your significant other or friend because you know they will be excited to hear about it.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Texts you more than you want them to and they get angry if you don't respond.

We only go out to lunch when my friend wants to go out.

My friend and I can always go to each other with our problems.

I am afraid to tell my friend anything deep because I don’t know who they will tell.

My friends and I can apologize to each other when we’ve done something hurtful.

My dating partner respects my choices.

My friends and I enjoy a variety of activities; together and independently.

I’m often feeling pressured by my friends to do things I don’t want to do.

The only way my friend knows how to express emotion is to yell or get mad.

My friend gets unreasonably irritated when I hang out with other people.

My friends support me when I have to make a tough decision.

Feeling that you always put the person before yourself by neglecting yourself

Maintaining honesty, trust, and respect for each other

Feeling as if you lack privacy (may be forced to share everything with the other person)

Feeling secure and comfortable

Not resolving conflicts fairly

Allowing and encouraging relationships with others

The other person attempts to control and/or criticizes how you behave

Resolving conflicts fairly

Feeling as if there’s a lack of respect for your friends/family

Maintaining and respecting one’s self-esteem independent of the relationship 

There’s an unequal control of resources (food, money, home, car, etc.)

Having the option for privacy or personal space

Feeling worried when you disagree with the other person

Respecting each other’s boundaries

Feeling pressured to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy

Having activities apart from one another

Pressuring the other person into agreeing with you or changing to suit you better

Not feeling worried about potential violence in the relationship

Having to justify your actions (e.g., where you go, who you see)

Feeling as if you can express yourselves to one another without fear of consequences

A girl notices her boyfriend is getting a lot of attention from two different people at school. She goes up to each of them separately and warns them to stay away from him, “or else.”

Your partner appreciates your passions and encourages you to do the things you love.

A couple has an agreement that they won’t put passwords on their phones and can check each others’ texts and social media accounts whenever they feel like it.

A guy and a girl have been together for six months, and things haven’t been going so well. She decides to stop taking her birth control without telling him, because she thinks if she gets pregnant he won’t break up with her.

You miss your partner when you go on vacation with your family but you have a really good time anyway.

Your friends accept you the way you are and don't force change on you

Show your own talents when your parents praise your brother or sister

Sit alone in one corner of your classroom to avoid conflict with your classmates.

Listen when somebody is talking.

Stay away from your new classmates.

Play games with your cousins and neighbors.

Share your toys with your younger brothers and sisters.

Make friends with your rich neigbors only

Be thankful when someone has done something for you even if you do not know them.

Your friend makes you choose between her and another friend.

You enjoy being with your family.

you always feel that when you and your friend are together, you are somehow being taken advantage of.

You usually engage in common activities with your friend, and when you do not, it is okay with both of you.

When you are sad about something, your friend surprises you with a nice card to cheer you up.

Your sister always blames you for things you did not do.

You always feel safe when you are with your mother because you can tell her anything without her getting angry at you.

You and your siblings love singing together.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After a disagreement, your friend uses the silent treatment and won't talk to you for days.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Your significant other says you don't really love him/her because you want to go to a movie with a friend instead of spending time alone with him/her.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Appreciates your passions and encourages you to do the things you love.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Miss your significant other or friend when you go on vacation with your family but you have a really good time anyway.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

You and your significant other or friend agree to take the night off from texting or calling each other, but while you're out, they call or text you multiple times to say they miss you.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After having a great day, can't wait to tell your significant other or friend because you know they will be excited to hear about it.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After having a great day, can't wait to tell your significant other or friend because you know they will be excited to hear about it.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After having a great day, can't wait to tell your significant other or friend because you know they will be excited to hear about it.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Texts you more than you want them to and they get angry if you don't respond.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Using positive language and words

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Staying quiet because you are afraid of what the other person might say

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Putting yourself "in the other persons shoes" (empathy)

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Uses a name or pronoun that you don't like but stops using it once you correct them or ask them not to.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After a disagreement, uses the silent treatment and won't talk to you for days.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Says you don't really love him/her because you want to go to a movie with a friend instead of spending time alone with him/her.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Appreciates your passions and encourages you to do the things you love.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Miss your significant other or friend when you go on vacation with your family but you have a really good time anyway.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Agree to take the night off from texting or calling each other, but while you're out your significant other or friend calls and texts you multiple times to say they miss you.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

After having a great day, can't wait to tell your significant other or friend because you know they will be excited to hear about it.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Texts you more than you want them to and gets angry if you don't respond.

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Admitting when you are wrong

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Using positive language and words

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Separating yourself from friends and family

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Staying quiet because you are afraid of what the other person might say

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Putting yourself "in the other persons shoes" (empathy)

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Breaking agreements

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Not participating in harmful behaviours

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Not discussing each others opinions

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Having no idea of how you want to be treated

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Separating yourself from friends and family

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Support the confidence of others

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Say mean words to others to hurt others' feelings

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Tell others why you need to be respected

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Listen and understand what others are saying

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Be honest and reliable

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Blaming others for the bad things you do

Healthy or Unhealthy

Disagreeing with one another

Healthy or Unhealthy?

One person makes all the decisions

Healthy or Unhealthy?

When you are told what to wear, eat, say, text, read.........

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Stay quiet because you are afraid of what the other person might say

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Taking turns