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WorksheetsRelationships and Boundaries Review Questions
Total questions: 2
Worksheet time: 31mins
The "A-Team" Dilemma
Alex, known online as "Alex_Adventures," is a popular travel vlogger who also shares a lot about his daily life and personal struggles with creative burnout and anxiety. He often tells his followers, whom he calls "The A-Team," that they are his "closest supporters" and that sharing with them is "like therapy."
Recently, Alex posted an emotional video explaining that his anxiety is making it hard for him to create content. He said he feels like he’s letting "The A-Team" down and is worried he might have to quit vlogging.
He then made three requests to his followers:
He asked them to donate to his "private support fund" via a direct payment link, saying the money would help him "take a mental health break and come back stronger" for them.
He asked his followers to "call out" other creators on the platform who he claimed were "copying his style," stating this was a major source of his stress.
He announced he was starting a "super-exclusive" private group chat for his "top supporters" (those who donate $50 or more), where he would share his "real, unfiltered" thoughts.
Alex's followers had different reactions:
Maya felt terrible for Alex and immediately donated $10, which was her lunch money for the week. She felt personally responsible for helping him feel better.
Ben enjoys Alex's videos but felt uncomfortable with the direct ask for money. He thinks Alex should just take a break if he needs one, without making his fans pay for it.
Chloe was furious on Alex's behalf. She spent the entire evening leaving negative comments on the other creators' videos, telling them to "stop stealing from Alex."
Leo desperately wants to join the exclusive chat to prove he's a top supporter. He donated $50 (which he had been saving for a new video game) and is now checking his phone every five minutes to see if Alex has added him.
Alex’s followers feel personally connected to him because he shares his struggles. What is the term for this one-sided connection where a follower feels they know a creator personally?
Alex’s requests blur the lines between a fan and a creator. Identify one of the boundaries discussed that Alex is encouraging his followers to cross?
What specific behaviours from Maya and Leo suggest their parasocial relationship with Alex might be becoming unhealthy?
Chloe feels she must defend Alex against other creators. What advice would you give Chloe about her responsibility as a follower and the potential negative effects of her actions?
Ben is the only one who feels skeptical. What is the difference between Ben’s perspective and the perspectives of Maya, Chloe, and Leo? What makes his reaction a healthier way to engage with a content creator?
Overcommunication
Alex is in three active group chats. During homework time, her phone keeps buzzing with messages from the soccer team, science project group, and friends. Alex is overwhelmed because it seems everyone expects quick replies. What boundaries could Alex set to manage the overcommunication and get homework done? Select all that apply.
Oversharing
Jordan posts 20 stories a day about everything—breakfast, outfits, family drama, and random thoughts. He feels down when when friends don't watch or comment. His friends feel overwhelmed by the amount Jordan shares.
Emotional Overload
Taylor is dealing with some difficulties at school and at home. For the past two months, she's been texting her friend Sam to vent and get support. Sam cares about Taylor but feels drained from being her 24/7 support person.
Identify three boundaries Alex could
set to manage the overcommunication and get homework done?
Give at least one boundary that Jordan's could friends set to manage the oversharing?
Give at least 1 boundary that Jordan can set to manage the oversharing.
What boundaries can Sam create to address her emotional overload and still be a good friend to Taylor?
