WorksheetsHealthy Relatioships
Total questions: 100
Worksheet time: 46mins
You must always agree on everything to be good friends.
True
False
It's ok to take breaks from certain people sometimes.
True
False
What is a good way to build a healthy relationship?
Always want to be right
do not compromise
communicate with the other person
do not share
If you have problems with a relationship, you should
yell at the other person
call the other person names
talk badly about the other person to others
talk to the person and try to work it out
If you can't solve the problem together,
ask someone you trust to help
yell at the person
hit the other person
make fun of the other person
You might have to accept each other's differences
True
False
You might choose to take a break from people who are making you feel upset
True
False
You can force someone to be your friend
True
False
When a friend shares a secret, you should
tell everyone
post it on social media
respect them and keep it a secret
Clearly stating needs, confidence, good eye contact, standing up for yourself, and listening are examples of ______________ communication.
negative
assertive
aggressive
Healthy or Unhealthy?
Someone calls you a name that you don't like but stops using it once you correct them or ask them not to.
Healthy
Unhealthy
Healthy or Unhealthy?
Putting yourself in "the other person's shoes"(empathy)
Healthy
Unhealthy
Healthy or Unhealthy?
Staying quiet because you are afraid of what the other person might say.
Healthy
Unhealthy
Which of the following is a healthy attribute or quality?
bitterness
jealousy
anger
trust
Healthy or Unhealthy?
A relationship that has respect, trust and honesty.
Healthy
Unhealthy
You should expect your friends to be perfect.
True
False
What is physical abuse?
When a child is not given enough food or nutrition for a healthy body
When someone hurts and injures a child or young person on purpose
When a child is made to feel worthless
When a child is involved in online bullying
Which of the following best describes emotional abuse?
Not providing a child with enough clothing or brand name sneakers
Repeatedly making a child feel worthless, unloved, alone or scared
Forcing a child to do chores to help keep the house tidy and teach responsibility
Giving a child too many gifts and turning them into a selfish and entitled person
Which of the following best describes emotional abuse?
Not providing a child with enough clothing or brand name sneakers
Repeatedly making a child feel worthless, unloved, alone or scared
Forcing a child to do chores to help keep the house tidy and teach responsibility
Giving a child too many gifts and turning them into a selfish and entitled person
Sexual abuse involves:
Not allowing a child to play outside when it is raining
Involving a child or young person in sexual activity by someone in a position of power
Showing physical affection and love for a child through hugs and holding hands
Not providing appropriate nourishment in their diet to grow a healthy mind and body
What is neglect?
When a child is not given everything on their Christmas list
When a parent or carer does not give a child the love, help and care they need
When a child is sent to school when they don't want to go
When a child is praised too much and become confident and resilient
Which of the following is NOT a type of abuse discussed?
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Academic abuse
Neglect
Domestic and family violence is best described as:
Violence or abuse that happens within a family or household
Not allowing a child to use the internet
Giving a child too much pocket money that they spend at Maccas
Making a child do extra homework
Which type of abuse involves the use of the internet or digital technology to harm a child?
Physical abuse
Online abuse
Elder abuse
Discriminatory abuse
Elder abuse refers to:
Abuse directed at young children from elderly people
Abuse directed at older people, often by someone they trust
Abuse that happens at school to teachers and support staff
Abuse that happens online or on social media dating apps
Discriminatory abuse is:
Abuse based on someone’s race, gender, disability or other differences
Abuse that happens in the workplace when the person promoted is not qualified for the role
Abuse that happens during sporting matches from those on the sidelines
Abuse that involves stealing from the wealthy and giving to the poor
Which of the following is an example of neglect?
Not taking a child to the doctor when they are sick
Praising a child for good work
Allowing a child to play with friends
Helping a child with homework
Which type of abuse involves making someone feel scared or alone?
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Financial abuse
Elder abuse
Which of the following is a sign of physical abuse?
Unexplained injuries or bruises
Feeling happy and safe at home
Good attendance at school
Having lots of friends
Which IS a method of conflict resolution?
Yelling
Meditation
Debate
Looking at both sides
What's a good method for resolving conflict?
Agree to their first proposal to calm everyone down
Speak in "you" statements so they feel heard
Explain your needs clearly
Make it personal
To resolve a conflict you need to...
Find a middle ground
Sacrifice some of your position
Agree on a mutual end goal
All of the above
If a solution fails...
You have failed
The solution needs to be rethought
You should work with someone else
The other person has failed
Your friend borrows your sunglasses and loses them. What should you do?
Express anger and emotion
Explain your feelings and ask for a replacement
Address how they need to be better
Lose their sunglasses in return
You're being accused of breaking something you didn't. What should you do?
Argue your case immediately.
Figure out who broke the item.
Make a plan to pay for the broken item.
Stay calm, honest, and explain your side. Try to calm the other side.
How can practicing mindfulness help in a conflict?
It can help us remain calm.
It can help us be unaware of our emotions.
It can help us argue more clearly.
It can help us ignore the problem.
What is the best communication style to use in a conflict?
Passive
Aggressive
Passive-Aggressive
Assertive
Which of the following is something you can control?
Feeling disappointed
Disagreeing with your parents
Yelling at your best friend
A difficult classmate
A mediator helps settle disputes between two parties. A mediator is similar to:
A ballplayer
A lawyer
A judge
A businessperson
Someone who must always get her way is most often viewed as:
Selfish
Persuasive
Unintelligent
Helpful
You're upset with your mom for throwing away some of your old comic books. How should you tell her?
"How could you do something so horrible?"
"You have no right to touch my things!"
"That was really mean and thoughtless."
"I'm upset that you threw away my comics."
What is Body Language?
Postures, gestures, and facial expressions.
The exchange of information through the use of words.
Your words say one thing but your body language say another.
Speak from your point of view.
When a person states his/her position in a firm but positive manner is
Aggressive
Assertive
Passive
None of the above
A person who has a tendency to give up, or give in without standing up for their rights and needs
Aggressive
Assertive
Communication
Passive
A person that is overly forceful, pushy, hostile or otherwise attacking in approach is known as
Asserive
Active listener
Aggressive
Passive
People that live together.
roommates
roombas
strangers
spaghetti
roomsters
People that live close.
neighbors
newlyweds
strangers
husband & wife
nicklebacks
My mother's sister is my _______
granny
cousin
uncle
aunt
Siblings are:
Brother
Sister
Cousins
Brother and sister
A good friend is someone
You can trust
You can share your worries and happiness
Helps when you are in need
All of the above
A good friend tells lies about you.
True
False
A way to make friends is to
Force someone to like you
Give them money
Be a good friend
Let them copy your work
A good friend is someone who corrects you when you are wrong.
True
False
If someone is a true friend they will
talk bad things about you to others
laugh at you
put you down
allow you to focus on a task when you are in a group
It's okay to have more than one friend
True
False
A good friend will think like me and like everything I like.
True
False
Friends should always____
Be by each other 24/7
Be distant and never want to be by the other
Have respect for each others space
Boundaries in a friendships are not important
False
True
Talking behind someones back is healthy
False
True
Physical reactions to anger include _________.
decreased heart rate and blood pressure
fatigue
headaches
Are feelings that affect our thoughts and behaviors
Emotions
Heart
Ideas
Match the sentences with the correct EMOTION.
"I don't think is a good idea to talk to her right now. She looks mad."
Anger is not an emotion.
TRUE
FALSE
You should always attack the person who triggers your anger.
TRUE
FALSE
One should stop, think then move away from a situation that angered them.
TRUE
FALSE
A hormone that causes anger is adrenalin.
TRUE
FALSE
Anger can be a motivator to change.
TRUE
FALSE
What is anger?
A violent feeling
Aggression
A normal emotion
Negative thoughts and ideas
What makes Anger not normal?
The way we respond to it
Acting out on it
Not learning from it
All of these
Which describe ways to deal with someone else's anger
Don't take it personal
Don't take chances
Listen to the person and keep your cool
All of the above
Which of the following help you to deal with anger?
control your breathing
shout
chew some gum
kick a chair
Besides taking a deep breath, what else can you do to relax?
control your breathing
take a walk
relax your muscles
all of these
Who is in control of your behavior?
Your parents
Yourself
Your teachers / professors
Your friends
Knowing our triggers and everyone's around us is important because?
We can help each other
We can prevent ourselves from being Angry
It is respectful
All of the above
Do our bodies let us know when we are angry or when something is wrong?
Yes
No
The technique of controlling your emotion so you can resolve conflict in a calm, rational manner is _________.
logic
anger management
emotional intelligence
meditation
Anger is _________.
an unhealthy reaction to conflict
a common healthy reaction to being emotionally hurt or physically harmed
always a destructive reaction
Relaxation is a healthy way to manage anger because it __________.
can make others think you are cool-headed and unflappable
distracts you from the problem at hand
helps you get your emotions under control in a tense situation
The three main approaches to managing anger are expressing, suppressing, and ______________.
calming
asserting
empathizing
If you are really angry at someone, it is best to _________.
keep it to yourself and avoid a conflict
yell and get it out of your system
calm yourself until you can express what's bothering you without causing a conflict
Situation 1 : Your friend Jerry makes fun of you for being a slow runner, what is the most appropriate way to react to this situation?
Ignore what he says and move on
Say mean things to him
Slap him
Control you anger
Situation 1 : Your friend Jerry makes fun of you for being a slow runner, what is the most appropriate way to react to this situation?
Ignore what he says and move on
Say mean things to him
Slap him
Control you anger
Situation 2 : Your friend blames you for something you have not done and you get into trouble? How do you cope with this situation? Select the most appropriate option.
Ignore him forever
Forgive him as he is your friend
Yell at him !
Forget this ever happened and never talk to him
In what way can you control your anger ?
By thinking before you speak
Expressing your thoughts once you are calm
Using humor to release your tension
All of the options
Situation 3: Your friend loses your favorite pen. How would u react?
Take his pen and throw it
Forgive him
Tell him u will never give him anything
Hurt him
Situation 4: You see a boy mimicking you and he is younger than you. What do u do about it?
Twist his hands
Hurt him by words
Threaten him
Ask him to stop
what causes stress
parents
people
yourself
school
can homework stress you out
yes
no
what bad when you are angry or sad
eating
listning to music
sleepin
Situation 2 : Your friend blames you for something you have not done and you get into trouble? How do you cope with this situation? Select the most appropriate option.
Ignore him forever
Forgive him as he is your friend
Yell at him !
Forget this ever happened and never talk to him
When you are angry, the first thing you should do is think about what you are going to do.
TRUE
FALSE
In what way can you control your anger ?
By thinking before you speak
Expressing your thoughts once you are calm
Using humor to release your tension
All of the options
Are feelings that affect our thoughts and behaviors
Emotions
Heart
Ideas
Match the sentences with the correct EMOTION.
"It's her birthday. He / She looks happy."
Match the sentences with the correct EMOTION.
"Something is not going well, She / He looks FRUSTRATED.
