A CARROT, AN EGG AND THE COFFEE BEANS

A CARROT, AN EGG AND THE COFFEE BEANS

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.

WHO YOU WOULD HAVE GONE TO IF YOU WERE FACING SOME ISSUES/PROBLEMS AND WHY?

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word. 

Multiple Choice

WHAT WAS PLACED IN THE THIRD POT?

• AN EGG

• THE COFFEE BEAN

• A CARROT

In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

The mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft.

She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water - but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

Multiple Choice

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF UNRELENTING?

• SOFT AND MILD

• YIELDING IN DETERMINATION.

• STUBBORN

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened!

 The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" the mother asked her daughter.

"When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?" Think of this. Which am I?

Multiple Choice

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF ADVERSITY?

• DIVERSITY

• UNPLEASANT SITUATION

• DOGGED DETERMINATION

Think of this. Which am I?

Am I the carrot.

Am I the egg.

Am i the coffee bean.

Am I the carrot that seems strong but, with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable 

heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit but, after facing a difficult or unpleasant situation does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart? 

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.

When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. 

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

MORAL OF THE STORY

IT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENS, BUT YOUR REACTION TO IT THAT MATTERS.