Habit 4

What does it mean to think win-win? 

• It means I get what I want but other people are not happy
• It means that we both get what we want
• It means that I am not happy but other people are happy
• It means if I can't have it, neither can you

What does it mean when a situation is "Win- Lose" ?

• It means I get what I want out of the situation, but you do not 
• It means you get what you want, but I do not
• It means both of us do not get what we want 
• It means we both get what we want 

What does it mean when a situation is "Lose- Lose" 

• It means we both get what we want
• It means I get what I want and you do not get what you want 
• It means I do not get what I want and you get what you want 
• It means we both do not get what we want.

Cassie and I both want to play with a hula hoop but there is only one. How can Cassie and I think "win- win" 

• Cassie plays with the Hula Hoops and does not share it with me 
• I play with the Hula Hoop and do not share it with Cassie
• We take turns playing with the Hula Hoop

My brother and I both want a pet. I want a dog. He wants a cat. Me and my brother can't agree so we do not get a pet. What kind of solution would this be? 

• Win- Win 
• Win- Lose
• Lose- Win
• Lose- Lose

What do you do when you are working on a group Science project together and everyone wants to the do the same job?

• Everyone in the group talks about what they want to do, and then make a decision before the work starts who does each role (take turns with certain roles)

• Scream and yell, threaten to tell the teacher on them, and just give up and don’t do anything.

What do you do when you want the same book from the library as someone else does?

• You could ask librarian if they have another copy of it. If not, take turns, one person has it one week and other person has it the next week.

• Whine and complain to your teacher that you can’t get the book you want.

At recess a group of students are having a hard time playing basketball with kindness. What do you do?

• Push somebody and call them a mean name, and throw the basketball at them.

• Choose a referee, and have the referee make fair calls. If you still can’t work it out, rock, paper, scissor for who gets the ball.

You are trying to fall asleep but your brother/sister is listening to music loudly in the room next to yours. What do you do?

• Just pretend it doesn’t bother you.

• Ask them to put on their headphones and listen to the music as loud as they want to, and then you can sleep or ask them to close their door, and you close your door.

The class just finished a group activity and supplies are everywhere. You can’t leave for recess until it is all cleaned up, but you have already cleaned up your mess. What do you do?

• Help other people even though you’re finished cleaning up. Also can ask your classmates who also finished cleaning up their mess to help.

• Tell your classmates that you finished cleaning up your mess, now they need to clean up their own mess