Friendship Stoplight Game

You are afraid of your friend’s temper.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend criticizes you or people you care about.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend threatens to hurt you.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend bullies and makes fun of you or other kids at school.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend pressures you to do things you do not want to do.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

You are nervous that if you tell your friend something personal, s/he will tell other people at school.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend sometimes makes fun of you.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

You rarely get to plan what the two of you will do together.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

Your friend tells you not to hang out with certain people.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.

You say that you agree with your friend, even when you really don’t. You are afraid they won’t be your friend anymore if you disagree.

• GREEN LIGHT: These are healthy/good signs in a friendship.

• RED LIGHT: These are unhealthy/bad signs in a friendship.

• YELLOW LIGHT: These are warning signs in a friendship.