What I tend to do?

When I can't get what I wanted (a turn/gift/friendship/role etc)

• I get upset

• I get angry

• I think about what I learned

• I think about what I can do better next time

When I'm not able to figure something out

• I get upset
• I get angry
• I keep trying

When I see someone else win

• I try to find out how they did it
• I get angry
• I get upset

When I realize that I was wrong/I made a mistake

• I'm sad but I think about what can I learn
• I apologize and take it as feedback
• I get very frustrated

When I win/do something right

• I'm exhilrated
• I document how I achieved it so that I can replicate
• I wonder some more

When I feel scared (to speak/interact/share my idea)

• I refuse to go up on stage
• I make fun of others
• That if I share I can come up with more

When I've to work in a group and no one is listening/contributing

• I take on all the responsibility happily
• I give up
• I get angry

When my dad/mom are busy or unwell and don't have time for me

• I think they don't love me
• I get disappointed
• I find ways to spend time with each of them

When I see problems around me - like pollution, garbage, child beggars, chemicals in food

• I think - why is nobody solving them?
• I feel a lot of pity
• I research and collect information about what can I do?

When I've taken on important work and the way ahead is unclear

• I persevere
• I complain
• I see guidance to move forward