Guidance Techniques

Explaining to children the consequences of their actions; Helping them understand reasons for rules

Consequences created by an adult to discourage certain behaviors

Consequences that occur as a direct result of a behavior, for example, When toys are left outside in the rain they may be ruined

Children like to have some control over what happens to them. Whenever possible, and only when possible, this can help children feel a sense of control.

Expectations should be clear, simple and fair.

Understand what to expect from children based on their skills and different abilities. Adjust expectations accordingly.

Shifting the child's attention to a different toy or activity that is more acceptable.

Being aware of what children are feeling and thinking; understand children's current mood and situation before punishing

Stating exacting what children are expected to do, rather than what not to do

Too many choices and options can overwhelm a child; Too much noise and activity can lead to meltdowns