Top 20 Lesson 4 An Inside Job

What percentage of your success is based on "you" your inside world?

• 90%

• 75%

• 20%

• 10%

• 65%

What percentage of your success is based on the outside world? Your friends. family, school. things that happen to you.

• 10%

• 20%

• 75%

• 90%

How do we become more successful?

• 1. improve our thinking

  2. Take action on that improved thinking

• 1. keep thinking the same negative way

  2. change mothing

• 1. Improve our thinking

  2. Change nothing

• 1. Blame others

  2. Change nothing

We can't change bad experiences that happen to us. What can we change?

• nothing

• Who we blame

• How we view and react to the experience

Who is more likely to blame others for their bad experiences?

• Top 20's

• Bottom 80's

• middle 50's

• everyone

What does Blaming others make us give away?

• our sanity

• our fun

• our power

• our lunch

How do bottom 80's feel from bad or undesirable experiences?

• powerless and they are the victim

• confused but hopeful

• know that a better attitude exists

How do top 20's react to bad or undesirable experiences?

• Work on themselves their inside job first to get better results

• Blame others

• Feel hopeless unless their outside changes

• Unaware that they can fix an inside job

If it's gonna be it's up to...

• My mom

• ME

• My dog

• My friend

What would an excuse shield look like?

• Blaming your teacher for not grading your late work right away

• cleaning your room when asked

• Going to volleyball practice on time