Victim vs Player Mindset

I can’t be expected to work full-time weeks based on how this project keeps going

• Player

• Victim

I’m going to tell Vince the impact his behavior has on me. I’ll talk about specific, observable behaviors so he’ll know what I’m getting at.

• Victim

• Player

I'm always so busy with work and the things I need to do to survive that I just don't have time to do things I want to do for myself

• Victim

• Player

I plan to express to Sarah how her actions affect my feelings, focusing on clear examples to ensure she understands.

• Victim

• Player

It's unreasonable to expect me to meet these deadlines given the current workload.

• Victim

• Player