HER - Why You Suck at Dating – Wisecrack Edition

The video explores the film 'Her' by Spike Jonze, focusing on its unique portrayal of love and relationships in a non-dystopian future. It delves into the story of Theodore Twombly and his relationship with an AI named Samantha, highlighting themes of love, alienation, and personal growth. The video references Erich Fromm's philosophy on love, emphasizing the importance of understanding and personal development in relationships. It concludes with reflections on the challenges of love and the journey towards self-realization.

What is the primary focus of the film 'Her'?

• The evolution of technology

• The downfall of human relationships

• A computer teaching a human how to love

• A dystopian future

According to Erich Fromm, what is the root of romantic relationships?

• Spontaneous emotions

• Libido

• Mystical forces

• Alienation

What does Fromm suggest is the main issue with how most people understand love?

• They see it as a mystical force

• They believe it is purely physical

• They think it is a simple emotion

• They view it as a financial transaction

How does Theodore initially experience love with Samantha?

• Through physical interaction

• By attending therapy sessions

• Through shared experiences and emotional support

• By reading books together

What does Fromm identify as a flawed approach to romance?

• Familial love

• Platonic love

• Practical love

• Sentimental love

What does Fromm believe is essential for achieving real, lasting love?

• Shared hobbies

• Truly knowing and respecting your partner

• Physical attraction

• Financial stability

How does Samantha help Theodore grow in their relationship?

• By providing financial support

• By teaching him new skills

• By encouraging him to be vulnerable

• By introducing him to new people

What challenge does growth in a relationship often bring, according to the film?

• One partner outgrowing the other

• Lack of communication

• Emotional detachment

• Financial difficulties

What does the film suggest about the nature of love?

• It is a resting place

• It is a constant challenge

• It is only for the young

• It is easy to maintain

How does Theo's understanding of love change by the end of the film?

• He decides to avoid relationships

• He learns to appreciate individuality

• He becomes more self-centered

• He focuses solely on his career