TED: How to be an upstander instead of a bystander | Angélique Parisot-Potter

The transcript narrates a personal story of workplace challenges faced by the speaker, Angelique, involving characters Bilal and Brenda. Angelique encounters systemic issues and threats after being accused of wrongdoing. Despite personal struggles and moral dilemmas, she chooses to act as an upstander. The narrative emphasizes the importance of speaking up against wrongdoing, understanding different roles in a situation, and learning to be at peace with one's actions. The speaker shares lessons on challenging authority, not being complicit, and being fearless in doing what is right.

What was the initial reaction of the narrator to the rumors about her removal?

• She was confident because she knew she did her job well.

• She immediately resigned from her position.

• She was indifferent and ignored them.

• She was alarmed and panicked.

What advice did James give to the narrator after hearing about the situation?

• To report the issue to higher authorities.

• To ignore the situation and continue working.

• To pack her things and call Brenda.

• To confront Bilal directly.

What realization did the narrator come to after speaking with her husband?

• That she needed to find a new job immediately.

• That the situation was part of a larger pattern of irregularities.

• That she should have been more discreet in her actions.

• That she had overreacted to a minor issue.

What were some of the personal challenges the narrator faced after being replaced?

• She received support from her coworkers.

• She suffered from health issues and had to pretend to her children.

• She was promoted to a higher position.

• She was offered a better job elsewhere.

What is a potential social consequence of speaking up in the workplace, according to the narrator?

• Being ignored by management.

• Receiving a promotion for bravery.

• Being ostracized and facing subtle bullying.

• Gaining immediate respect from all coworkers.

What is one of the key lessons the narrator learned about dealing with authority?

• Challenge authority when something seems amiss.

• Always agree with authority to avoid conflict.

• Seek approval from authority before taking any action.

• Ignore authority and do as you please.

According to the narrator, what is the role of an 'upstander'?

• Someone who remains neutral in all situations.

• Someone who speaks up for what is right.

• Someone who benefits from wrongdoing.

• Someone who is aware but does nothing.