INTERVIEW – Nigel Barker at GOOD + Foundation's Fatherhood Lunch in New York City

The speaker shares their long-term involvement with the Good Plus Foundation, highlighting an experience in Harlem where two families shared an apartment due to financial constraints. This situation prompted a reflection on the challenges faced by families and the importance of involving fathers in family discussions, which are often overlooked. The speaker emphasizes the need for men to engage in meaningful conversations about parenting and support each other.

What was the primary reason for two families sharing an apartment in Harlem?

• They were close relatives.

• They wanted to save on rent.

• They were participating in a social experiment.

• They were renovating their own homes.

What realization did the speaker have about their own life after visiting the families in Harlem?

• They should work night shifts.

• They should donate more to charity.

• They were fortunate as a parent.

• They needed to move to a bigger house.

Why does the speaker believe fathers are often overlooked in family discussions?

• Fathers prefer to discuss sports.

• Mothers are better at organizing discussions.

• Fathers are usually busy with work.

• Fathers are not interested in family matters.

What type of conversation does the speaker suggest men should engage in?

• Talks about financial investments.

• Conversations about improving as fathers.

• Discussions about sports.

• Chats about travel experiences.

What is the speaker's view on traditional locker room talk?

• It is essential for bonding.

• It should be replaced with meaningful discussions.

• It is a good way to relax.

• It is irrelevant to family life.