TED: Our story of rape and reconciliation | Thordis Elva and Tom Stranger

Tom Stranger and Thordis Elva recount their shared history of a traumatic event during a Christmas dance in Iceland. Thordis, a survivor of sexual violence, and Tom, the perpetrator, share their individual journeys of denial, guilt, and eventual reconciliation. Through years of correspondence and a meeting in Cape Town, they explore themes of forgiveness, healing, and societal responsibility. Their story highlights the importance of dialogue and understanding in addressing sexual violence.

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