Supporting a Friend Who Comes Out

What is the first thing you should say to a friend who comes out to you?

• I care about you and our friendship.

• Are you sure about this?

• Why didn't you tell me sooner?

• Let's keep this a secret.

Why is it important to call or text your friend the day after they come out?

• To remind them of your plans.

• To reassure them that your relationship hasn't changed.

• To ask them more questions.

• To tell them about your day.

What should you do if you're not comfortable making phone calls?

• Ignore your friend until they reach out.

• Send them a text or instant message.

• Wait for them to call you.

• Write them a letter.

Why is it important to respect your friend's privacy after they come out?

• Because they might not want to talk about it.

• Because you might not understand their situation.

• Because they might change their mind.

• Because it's their news to share when they're ready.

What should you do if your friend seems upset or unsure after coming out?

• Ignore their feelings.

• Share their news with others.

• Direct them to helpful resources.

• Tell them to get over it.