Bible believers are encouraged to focus on what is pure, lovely, and noble (Philippians 4:8). But when shoppers step into a Halloween store today, they are greeted with an overwhelming display of ghastly costumes, macabre masks, bloody paraphernalia, and tombstones with disturbing messages about death.

Should we close our doors, shut off our porch lights, and simply ignore trick-or-treaters? Or should we open our doors to children but offer them something instead of candy, perhaps a healthy treat along with Christian literature?

How can a Christian be in the world and not of the world on October 31?

God’s Word teaches that the dead are truly dead.

Take time to teach your children that the Bible does not support the worship of the dead or any attempt to contact them.

The Bible is clear that death is an ally and is not a result of sin—it’s a rite of passage (1 Corinthians 15:26).

Christians should really celebrate a day that promotes spiritualism.

Jesus encouraged His disciples to be “in the world” but not “of the world” (John 17:15, 16).

While it’s not always easy for believers to know where to draw the line of being “all things to all people” but refusing to participate in unholy activities, many Christians take the opportunity to share their faith with neighbors on Halloween.

Instead of ignoring children who happen by their homes, for instance, they open their doors and, with smiling faces, share a healthy treat and even appropriate literature to guide visitors toward Jesus.

Decide in advance, based on Scripture, what activities your family will choose to participate in during Halloween.

Ask for God’s help in prayer and Bible study, and then follow the convictions of the Holy Spirit with a clear conscience.

However, some activities are obviously things in which a Christian should not participate. Watching horror movies, gorging on candy, playing pranks that hurt people, or visiting so-called haunted attractions are all things Christians will avoid.

It is good to watch horror movies.

It is good to do or watch pranks that hurts other people

It is good to visit haunted houses

Involve your local church community in creating a social event that likeminded families can enjoy—events without the implications of spiritualism.

Some churches choose a theme, such as Noah and the Ark or the Reformation, and focus all their activities around lessons that combat the unbiblical ideas associated with Halloween. Even many unchurched parents will be thankful to join in a positive, safe social experience that avoids frightening their children. And opening your doors to them is an opportunity to teach them about your church.

You can also invite families into your home for a short, age-appropriate Bible study, refreshments, and family-building games. Make it a time of worship and fellowship with the emphasis that Jesus taught us to “hallow” the name of our heavenly Father (Matthew 6:9).

The Bible says it is not our place to judge others.

Do not speak evil of one another, brethren. He who speaks evil of a brother and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law and judges the law” (James 4:11).

Some fellow Christians might still be trying to work through how to deal with Halloween. Maybe they are not as clear or as convicted as you are about what to do—especially those with children. Approaching them with an angry or critical spirit will not help them see Christ.

Instead of condemning parents, realize that each person is responsible for their own choices and then trust God to guide fellow believers. Guide them with a loving spirit, pray for them, and make sure they are someone you include on your October 31 plans.