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WorksheetsIPR Final Review
Total questions: 71
Worksheet time: 36mins
Amy failed a science test. When she got home from school, she yelled at her little sister and was rude to her mother. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Amy is using to cope with failing her science test?
displacement
regression
daydreaming
idealization
Denise and Jordan were trying to decide which movie to see. Jordan said he wanted to see The Hobit. Denise did not want to see this movie, so she stomped away from him to a nearby bench where she preceded to cry and pout about how she never gets her own way. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Denise is using to cope with not getting to pick the movie?
idealization
daydreaming
regression
displacement
When Doug didn’t make the baseball team, he went home and fantasized about the day he would be in the Major Leagues. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Doug is using to cope with not making the team?
regression
daydreaming
idealization
displacement
Sasha understood why Brent broke up with her; it was definitely because she is too good for him. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Sasha is using to cope with the break up?
idealization
daydreaming
regression
displacement
A foolish, extreme attraction that does not last.
infatuation
passion
intimacy
commitment
physical attraction
intimacy
commitment
passion
infatuation
closeness, knowledge, and connectedness
commitment
infatuation
passion
intimacy
Trust, loyal, giving
commitment
intimacy
infatuation
passion
Traits developed as a result of environmental factors are called acquired traits
True
False
Physical growth and intellectual growth proceed at the same pace.
True
False
If you are in an unhealthy relationship, it is best to stay in it and try and fix it – no matter how long it takes, the relationship can be fixed.
True
False
True friends will admire you less if you stick to your beliefs and values.
True
False
Technological advances such as televisions, cell phones and the internet have not changed the way that we communicate with one another.
True
False
A relationship is unhealthy if a person does something to you even if they know it will hurt you.
True
False
If you believe a stereotype, you are likely to prejudge people before you ever know them.
True
False
Shanice has an older brother and a younger sister. Because of this, her friends can expect that Shanice will act as a peacemaker and will be a calm, even-tempered friend.
True
False
The youngest child has more responsibilities than other children and grows up rapidly.
True
False
Communication involves only a sender of messages.
True
False
When you cross your arms across your chest, you are setting up barriers to further communication.
True
False
When working in a group setting, I-messages are usually accusing and blaming, and they hurt communication between group members.
True
False
It is important to have a bottom line for how you want to be treated.
True
False
The purpose of dating is to learn what you are looking for in a marriage partner.
True
False
The best thing to do when you break up with someone is to start dating others immediately.
True
False
Most people would rather know the reason for a breakup even though it might hurt.
True
False
A computer programmer is an example of a career in which one would use interpersonal skills frequently.
True
False
If Julie compromises with AJ, she will insist on getting her way and will not listen to AJ’s suggestions.
True
False
Stereotyping someone might cause you to miss out on getting to know a great person.
True
False
When deciding if you should be in a relationship with someone (friends or dating), it is important to know about her family life, but her values and morals are not relevant.
True
False
Controlling behaviors, name-calling and extreme jealousy could be considered warning signs of an abusive relationship.
True
False
The first step in the conflict resolution process is to compromise on a solution.
True
False
One’s place in the family (oldest, middle-child, only child, youngest) has little to no affect on his personality.
True
False
Which phrase below most accurately describes self-esteem?
The way you feel about yourself.
The way you see yourself.
The promise of what you think you can become.
The sense of right and wrong that guides behavior.
How is your self-concept shaped?
By the reactions of your parents, other family members, your teachers and friends..
Only when you have positive experiences in your life.
Automatically when you are born
None of the above.
Katie has a healthy amount of self-esteem. What actions/attitudes below is she most likely to take?
Katie will express her opinions and compliment others.
Katie will worry about weaknesses that are a problem for her.
Katie may be reluctant to take reasonable risks.
Katie is certain she won’t make any mistakes.
All of the following are characteristics of a healthy relationship EXCEPT which of the following items?
Communication
Making time for one another.
Complimenting and encouraging of each other.
Hurting each other on purpose.
For most people, what is the most influential factor affecting their personality development?
peers
family
school
community
What can we conclude about infatuation?
Infatuation inspires selfish thoughts and actions.
Infatuation is steady and secure.
Infatuation takes time to grow and develop.
Infatuation is a deep commitment.
Warning signs of an abusive dating relationship include which of the following?
Accepting each other’s flaws.
Isolation from friends and family.
Questioning a girlfriend about a conversation she recently had with an ex boyfriend.
Occasional disagreements.
Writing a letter is an example of which type of communication?
body language
nonverbal communication
feedback
verbal communication
Lack of trust is often mentioned as a problem between parents and teens. What is the best action for teens to take to solve this problem?
Demonstrate that they can be trusted by fulfilling everyday obligations.
Remind parents that teens have to be trusted.
Be honest with their parents
Both A and C.
If you want to improve communication with your parents, what is the best action to take?
Use you-messages so you won't appear to be self-centered.
Use I-messages as you take responsibility for the feelings you are stating.
Talk to them as soon as they come home, even if they are busy.
Not talk to them, for they won't understand anyway.
Conflict resolution includes which of the following components?
A meeting that is open to anyone who wants to attend.
Always having a mediator who will provide a solution to the conflict.
Active listening.
The finding of a solution that one party can accept.
A relationship may need to end if which of the following occurs?
The couple spends a few nights a week with friends.
The couple differ on values.
The couple occasionally argue.
All of the above.
Passive listening typically produces which of the following outcomes?
Often ends further communication.
Lets the sender know you heard and understand the message.
Includes eye-contact and nodding.
Encourages conversation to continue.
When you break up, it is best to do which of the following things?
End the relationship with no explanation.
Lead the other person on so the breakup won't be so painful.
Share the blame for the breakup.
Break up in front of friends so everyone will find out about it at the same time.
Which of the following is true concerning intimacy?
Intimacy does not necessarily mean sexual intimacy.
Intimacy means you accept another person as he or she is.
Intimacy is a feeling of warm friendship.
All of the above.
Which of the following forces helps shape your personality?
Heredity
Environment
Your response to your environment
All of the above.
Learning to express your feelings in a way that is acceptable to others is an example of which type of growth?
emotional
intellectual
chronological
philosophical
Which definition below best describes personality?
The group of behavioral and emotional traits that distinguishes an individual.
The picture you have of yourself.
The type of growth that is the same for everyone.
Sum of the traits passed down from your ancestors.
If you have low self-esteem, you should take which action in order to raise your self-esteem?
Practice positive self-talk.
Avoid people.
Refrain from sharing your opinions.
Focus on what you cannot do.
Which definition below best describes character?
The picture you have of yourself.
The main person in a novel or book.
The way you feel about yourself.
The sense of right and wrong that guides your behavior.
Which of the following is not an example of active listening?
Nodding your head as the person talks.
Yawning
Maintaining eye contact with the person speaking.
Responding to the person by answering a question or re-phrasing what he or she said.
Which statement reveals behaviors that tend to help character development?
Self-centered
Unable to sense the needs of others
Natural inclination to assist those in need
Indifferent to the needs of other human beings.
Taking innocent comments at personal attacks is what type of listener?
Defensive listeners.
Careless listeners.
Narrow listeners.
Good listeners.
Which of the following statements is NOT true about how appearance communicates?
People often judge you by the clothes you wear.
Clothing is the only thing about your appearance that sends a message.
Good quality clothes will create a poor impression if they are wrinkled or soiled.
Being well groomed communicates that you care about yourself and other people’s opinions.
Lola is trying to help her character development. Which action below should she take to further this process?
Lola naturally is inclined or drawn to assist those in need.
Lola sees a student drop all of his books in the hallway and she does not stop to help.
Lola is dating Arie but she flirts with Sean when Arie isn’t looking.
Lola gives up after she can’t do a geometry problem.
Learning to accept what you cannot change will have what outcome?
It will damage your self-esteem.
It will not affect your self-esteem.
It will help you practice negative self-talk.
It will lead to a greater sense of self-esteem.
When your self-esteem is low, you are more likely to take which action?
Be dependent on others.
Show initiative.
Speak up for yourself.
Act independently.
Which of the following displays a HEALTHY relationship?
Courtney & Kate are nice to Danielle when they hang out together but find Dani annoying. They try to plan a get together when they know Dani can't attend.
Natalie wants to hang out with Elijah, a soccer player, because she thinks being friends with a soccer player makes her popular.
Laura's friend persuades her to go to a drinking party.
Sarah encourages John to reach his goal of becoming a pilot.
What is NOT a good suggestion to overcome your stereotyping of others?
Get to know others before judging them.
Learn more about people and situations before accepting a statement as a fact.
Expect people to act a certain way.
Be open to meeting other people and welcome their unique qualities.
Patricia wants her boss to know that she is listening when he gives a presentation. Which of the following things should she do during the presentation?
Nod and keep eye contact.
Rest her head in her hand and yawn.
Listen to her IPOD and text.
Doodle on her paper and stare at the clock
Which of the following is an example of an I-Message?
“Stop touching me!”
“Please stop touching me.”
“I am trying to pay attention. I would appreciate it if you would stop touching me.”
“Would you stop touching me?”
Gina’s parents do not like her best friend, Nora. Gina really enjoys Nora and wants her parents to understand that she is a positive influence on her. What is the best action for Gina to take to improve this situation?
Gina should ask her parents to lighten up.
Gina should ask Nora to come over and meet the parents so that the parents can get to know Nora.
Gina should ask Nora over when the parents aren’t home that way the parents don’t yell at Gina.
Gina should tell her parents that they are very unfair and that they never let her do anything.
Which person below is demonstrating a communication barrier?
Blake, who keeps eye-contact.
Tiffany, who always interrupts people.
Chelsey, who always asks clarifying questions.
Ryan, who nods and follows along with the conversation.
James and Matt got into a fight over a girl. The next day they want to work it out. What action do you feel is most likely to help James and Matt resolve their conflict?
Matt decides to give James the cold shoulder by refusing to talk to him.
James blames Matt for the problem and demands that Matt finds a way to make it up to him.
James and Matt find a quiet place to talk and each give each other a chance to explain their viewpoint.
The two start shoving each other as they talk about the problem.
“I know this must be a hard time for you. What can I do to help?
Sympathy
Sarcasm
Passive Communication
Empathy
Which choice below most accurately describes the highest level in Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs? (top of the pyramid)
Safety and Security; meaning that you feel safe from physical danger.
Physical Needs; meaning your needs of food, water and shelter are meet.
Love and Acceptance; meaning you are secure in your relationships with family/friends.
Self Actualization; meaning you have realized your full potential.
Ty gets caught for underage drinking by the local police. He continues to insist that he doesn’t think it he should be in trouble “everyone is doing it.” Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Ty is using to cope with being busted?
Projection
Compensation
Rationalization
Conversion
Lucy is so upset that Jeff broke up with her that she has given herself a splitting headache. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Lucy is using to cope with the break up?
Rationalization
Projection
Conversion
Conversion
Kevin was upset that he didn’t make the basketball team because he was hoping to earn a scholarship for college. He decided to instead focus all of his efforts on his grades to earn an academic scholarship for college. Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Kevin is using to cope with not making the team?
Compensation
Conversion
Rationalization
Projection
Jack did poorly on his Algebra final. When his parents confronted him about it, he said “It’s the teacher’s fault, she doesn’t know how to teach.” Based on this evidence, what defense mechanism can we conclude Jack is using to cope with doing poorly on the final?
Rationalization
Compensation
Projection
Conversion
