WorksheetsLSTM - Assertiveness & Conflict Resolution
Total questions: 17
Worksheet time: 17mins
What are the 3 types of response styles someone can use?
Talking, texting, and listening
Loud, confident, and stern
Passive, aggressive, and assertive
Friendly, honest, and kind
Assertive communication means standing up for yourself without disrespecting others
True
False
Which situation would most likely require you to be assertive?
Saying "no" to a friend's request
Asking your teacher a question
Saying "hello" to a classmate
Ordering lunch at a restaurant
Not wanting to start an argument is a reason why someone might avoid being assertive
False
True
Which of these is NOT a benefit of being assertive?
Increased self-esteem
Respect from others
Being taken advantage of
Increased sense of control
What is the first thing you should do when saying "no" or making a request assertively?
Yell at the person
Avoid eye contact
Use a shy, quiet tone of voice
Clearly state your position or the problem
You and your friends are splitting a pizza. Everyone takes too many slices, and you only get 1. Which of these shows an assertive response?
"You're all selfish! Give me more!"
"Everyone got extra pizza and I didn't. Can you save me a slice next time?"
"It's fine, I was not hungry anyways."
"I don't want to be your friend anymore!"
I-messages focus on how you feel instead of blaming the other person
True
False
I-messages are NOT a useful way to communicate how you feel
True
False
Which of the following is NOT an example of an I-message?
I feel angry when you interrupt me
I need some time to focus on my homework
I think you're the reason our group never gets along
I feel upset when you make jokes about me
Which of the following nonverbal communication techniques show assertiveness?
Eye contact
Turning away
Crossing your arms
Facing towards the person
You are at a friend's house and they are drinking alcohol. They offer it to you, but you don't want any. What is an effective way to say "no">?
Repeating "no"
Changing the subject
Giving an excuse
Walking away
In most conflicts, what two things could be affected?
Each person and their goals
Winning and losing
Who's winning and who's losing
Feelings and opinions
A compromise happens when...
Both people get exactly what they want
One person gets their way
Everyone ignores the problem
Both people give up something to gain something
A compromise is an _________ way to resolve a conflict
Ineffective
Effective
Which of the following is an example of a compromise?
You refuse to lend your friend a book, even though they asked nicely
You take the last piece of candy without asking anyone
Your friend ignores your suggestion on what to do after school and does what they want
You want to watch a movie, but your friend wants to play a game. You decide to watch a movie today and play the game tomorrow
Which of the following are ways to help us stay calm during a conflict?
Taking a deep breath
Yelling and blaming the other peraon
Standing up for yourself
Ignoring the problem altogether
Walking away
