Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships

​What is a Healthy Relationship?

• real & communicate

• consistent & dependable

• accountable

• nurturing of your relationships

• vulnerable

• a good listener

• trusting & choose what/with whom to share

• clear in your boundaries

• okay with being you!

• respectful of each other’s values & morals

• empathetic

Multiple Select

How can you respect yourself? Choose all that apply.

• Recognize your own accomplishments

• Be overly self-critical

• Do what makes other people happy

• Stay true to yourself

Multiple Choice

Respect means that you think about other people's feelings before you act.

• True

• False

Multiple Choice

What does empathy mean?

• The ability to understand and share the feelings of another

• Sharing toys

• Talking to friends

• Asking someone to play

Multiple Choice

What is it called when someone makes you feel bad for spending time with others?

• Control

• Isolation

• Obsession

• Guilt

Multiple Choice

What is it called when your significant other or partner keeps you away from friends and family?

• Control

• Isolation

• Obsession

• Guilt

Multiple Choice

What is it called when you are told what to wear, eat, say, text, read ...

• Control

• Isolation

• Obsession

• Guilt

Multiple Choice

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Nina always sticks up for Eva when she hears people talking about her.

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

Multiple Choice

Malik constantly brings up Joe's past mistakes. This is an example of a(n)...

• Healthy Relationship

• Unhealthy Relationship

Multiple Choice

Healthy or Unhealthy?

Brenda has a boyfriend who says she's not allowed to talk to other guys at all.

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

Red Flags of Abuse

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The next SLIDE will cover the RED FLAGS OF ABUSE. You will need to know those for the movie assessment. :-)

Multiple Choice

An example of emotional abuse is...

• Telling your partner they look nice

• Constantly telling your partner they looks fat in their clothes.

• Punching your partner in the face.

• Allowing your partner to be themselves

Multiple Choice

An example of physical abuse is:

• Unwanted kissing

• Slapping your partner because he talked to another person.

• Pinching your partner's leg when you didn't like what was said to your friends at the lunch table.

• All of the above

Multiple Choice

Doing or saying things to isolate/separate victims from friends and family.

• Financial abuse

• Sexual abuse

• Emotional abuse

• Physical abuse

Multiple Choice

On average, victims break up and get back together a total of how many times before the victim leaves abuser for good?

• 2-3 times

• 4-5 times

• 7 or more times

Multiple Select

Check all of the following that are red flags of an abuser?

• Cruelty to animals or children

• Past battering/abuse in previous relationships

• Affectionate behavior

• Breaking/throwing objects

Multiple Select

Choose 2 warning signs of abuse?

• Your partner provides you with love and emotional support.

• You seem really happy when you are around your partner

• You are blamed for things you didn't do. You are afraid to disagree with him/her.

• Your partner constantly insults &/or embarrasses you

Multiple Choice

What are the different types of abuse?

• Physical, Verbal, Financial, Emotional, Sexual

• Standard, Complex, Extreme

• Hitting, Punching, Kicking

• First Offense, Second Offense and Third Offense

Multiple Choice

The amount of adolescents in the U.S. that have experienced physical, sexual, emotional, or verbal abuse from a dating partner is

• 1 out of 20

• 1 out of 3

• 1 out of 10

• 1 out of 5

Multiple Choice

During this phase of the cycle of abuse, the abuser yells at the target for no reason and the target begins to feel they can't do anything right.

• Incident

• Reconciliation

• Tension Building

• Calm

Multiple Choice

The 3 initial phases of the cycle of abuse are called:

• Tension Building, Calm/Honeymoon, and Reconciliation.

• Tension Building, Incident, and Calm/Honeymoon.

• Calm/Honeymoon, Tension Building, and Incident.

• Tension Building, Incident, and Reconciliation.

Multiple Choice

During the tension-building stage of the cycle of violence, the abuser.....

• causes serious injury.

• is affectionate.

• asks for forgiveness.

• acts jealous and possessive.

Multiple Choice

When helping someone being abused, a friend should do all of the following, except:

• Believe the story.

• Tell the person that they do not deserve to be abused.

• Tell as many of your friends as you can.

• Give helpful resources.

Multiple Choice

During which phase of the cycle of abuse does the abuser argue with the victim for no reason? The victim feels he or she can't do anything right (walking on egg shells)

• Explosion

• Honeymoon/Calm

• Tension Building

• Ignoring

Multiple Choice

During this phase of the cycle of abuse, the abuser might scream and yell in a frightening way or physically attack the target.

• Incident

• Honeymoon/Calm

• Tension building

• Reconciliation

Multiple Choice

During this phase of the cycle of abuse, the abuser might apologize for abuse, promise it won't happen again, compliment and/or buy gifts for victim

• Explosion

• Honeymoon

• Tension building

• Ignoring

Multiple Choice

What does the Wheel of Power & Control do?

• It illustrates the tactics an abuser uses on their victim.

• It explains what a healthy relationship looks like.

• It teaches you how you can learn to abuse others.

• It explains the process of how victims abuse others.

Multiple Choice

The following are warning signs of abuse, EXCEPT:

• Telling you what to do.

• Isolating you from family and friends.

• Checking up on you when you are sick.

• Explosive temper

Multiple Choice

Getting mad at your partner for talking to another person is...

• Healthy

• Unhealthy