Unit 7 Lesson 2

Unit 7 Lesson 2

Tic-Tac-Toe Control

Some reasons for being liked or not liked are under a person's control;

some are not.

Objective:

Students will be able to distinguish between reasons people are liked that they can and cannot control.

Successful people...

• ask questions

• show interest

• exercise self-control

• don't complain often

• demonstrate honesty

• do their share of work

Directions:

Sometimes you can control whether people will

like or dislike you. Sometimes you cannot control

whether people will like or dislike you. Read each

of the events then decide if the reason you are liked or disliked is under your control.

Multiple Select

You went out with your friend last weekend. She wanted to see a movie. You wanted to go skating.

You told her if she didn't go skating, you'd go home.

YOU ACT STUBBORN.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

You stayed to help your friend clean up after his party. A few

others stayed to help out, too. You cleared the tables and washed the dishes.

YOU DO YOUR SHARE OF THE WORK.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

Your grandmother asked you to help her clean her attic. You said you’d be there Saturday morning.

You told your friends you couldn’t play basketball until 1 p.m.

YOU KEEP YOUR PROMISE.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

The clerk at the checkout gave you change from $10. You know you only gave her $5 . You told her and gave the money back.

YOU ARE HONEST.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

The company you work for had a fashion show to raise money for charity.

You were asked to be a model because you are pretty.

YOU ARE GOOD LOOKING.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

The store was very busy. You waited for a clerk to help you. She waited on someone else. You thought it was your turn. You blew your top.

YOU LOSE YOUR TEMPER.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

No one has problems like you do. Nothing ever goes right. You talk all day about how bad things are for you.

YOU COMPLAIN A LOT.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

Everyone wants to be your friend since you won the lottery.

YOU ARE LUCKY TO BE RICH.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Multiple Select

The other players asked you to join the basketball team because you are tall.

YOU ARE VERY TALL.

• liked

• disliked

• under your control

• not under your control

Behavior Development: friendship making

One good way to get to know people and to make friends is to discuss THEIR interests. Please go to our Canvas course to access the next part of this lesson: EDpuzzle: How to Make Friends.