Signs of Healthy/Unhealthy Friendships

You are afraid of your friend’s temper.

• Red ( Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green (Good sign)

Your friend criticises you or people you care about

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

Your friend threatens to hurt you

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

Your friend tells you not to hang out with certain people.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

You say that you agree with your friend, even when you really don’t. You are afraid they won’t be your friend anymore if you disagree.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

Your friend respects your feelings and your opinions.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

You are nervous that if you tell your friend something personal, s/he will tell other people at school.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

Your friend sometimes makes fun of you.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

You enjoy being with this person, but you also enjoy spending time with other friends.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)

You rarely get to plan what the two of you will do together.

• Red (Bad sign)

• Amber (Warning sign)

• Green ( Good sign)