Friendship quiz

You are with a friend and they say something that you do not agree with. 

Do you:

• agree with them to avoid conflict?

• only say what you think if they ask your opinion?

• tell them you don’t agree with them and explain why?

• interrupt them to tell them your opinion?

You have become friends with someone but some of your other friends aren’t happy with the new friendship. 

• drop your new friend?

• ask your friends why they don’t like your new friend, then decide what to do?

• tell them that it’s none of their business and you can choose to be friends with whoever you want?

• be friends with your new friend and leave your old friends alone?

Two of your friends have a fight and fall out. 

Do you:

• take the side of the person that you like most?

• leave them to sort it out and try not to get involved?

• listen to both sides and support the person that you think is in the right?

• tell Student Services about the argument?

One of your friends asks you to tell a lie to stop them getting into trouble with their parents. 

Do you:

• agree to do so because you are afraid of losing their friendship?

• say you’ll only do so if you are not covering up anything serious?

• say no and explain that you can’t get involved in what is going on between them and their parents? 

• say no and end the friendship?

Some friends dare you to do something that could have serious consequences. 

Do you:

• agree to do it to try to impress them?

• find an excuse to not do it?

• refuse and say you aren’t prepared to do it?

• say no and tell them that it is making you feel uncomfortable?

Your friends are talking about relationships in a way you don’t feel comfortable with. 

Do you:

• join in, even though you feel uncomfortable?

• keep quiet, but not show how it is making you feel?

• tell them why you feel uncomfortable?

• change the conversation to a topic that you are comfortable with?

I think I am good at making friends?

What would you like to improve on when making friends/ keeping friendships going?