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Gabe is a 14-year-old with autism who enjoys spending time in a quiet area of the school cafeteria at lunch. One day, Gabe overhears a loud argument between two classmates, Jamie and Sam. Jamie seems very upset, speaking loudly and making angry gestures. Sam is trying to calm Jamie down, but nothing works. Gabe doesn't know Jamie or Sam very well, but they yelling and intense body language make him feel scared, anxious and overwhelmed.

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Why did Gabe feel scared?

• Because Jamie was yelling at Gabe

• Because loud noises and angry gestures can be overwhelming

• Because Sam asked Gabe to help

• Because Gabe was involved in the argument

What is one way Gabe might handle feeling scared in a similar situation in the future?

• Ask Jamie why they are angry

• Join the conversation to calm things down

• Find a quiet space to calm down or ask an adult for help

Which of these strategies might help Gabe understand why they felt overwhelmed?

• Not thinking about it

• Talking to an adult about how loud noises and emotions can affect others

• Pretending nothing happened

If Gabe had stayed in the cafeteria, what might have helped them feel safer?

• Covering their ears or using noise-cancelling headphones

• Standing up and yelling at Jamie to stop

• Leaving without telling anyone how they felt

How could Gabe avoid feeling scared the next time someone is angry nearby?

• Recognize that the anger isn't directed at them

• By not going to the cafeteria anymore

After this event, how might Gabe feel around Jamie?

• Comfortable

• Nervous and Anxious

• Excited