Module Quiz 6: Healthy Relationship Skills

Mr. Johns teaches high school English. He just finished grading his classes’ term papers and handed them back. Kaitlyn received her essay back and was excited because she got full points on the paper. When she checked her grade on the computer, however, it was marked as missing. Kaitlyn figured that it was a mistake and that Mr. Johns would notice it eventually. She didn’t want to make a big deal of it, and she was sure he would realize his mistake. After a few weeks, Kaitlyn was very upset that Mr. Johns still hadn’t fixed her grade. What type of communication style is Kaitlyn using in this scenario?

• passive

• passive-aggressive

• assertive

• aggressive

What is the difference between an "I" statement and a "you" statement?

• There is no difference between "I" statements and "you" statements.

• "I" statements blame the other person, while "you" statements take responsibility for your own feelings.

• "I" statements are always polite, while "you" statements are always rude.

• "I" statements take responsibility for your own feelings, while "you" statements blame the other person.

Why is it important to use the right style of communication for your audience?

• to avoid getting in trouble

• to show off your impressive vocabulary

• to make communication easier and more effective

• to impress your friends

Why can online communication make conflict resolution more difficult?

• It's easier to say hurtful things anonymously.

• You can't see the other person's body language.

• All of these make online conflicts more difficult to resolve.

• You can't hear the other person's tone of voice.

This song is promoting which type of relationships?

Wildest Dreams 

Taylor Swift

He said let's get out of this town

Drive out of the city

Away from the crowds

I thought heaven can't help me now

Nothing lasts forever

But this is gonna take me down

He's so tall, and handsome as h***

He's so bad but he does it so well

I can see the end as it begins my one condition is

 

Say you'll remember me

Standing in a nice dress, staring at the sunset babe

Red lips and rosy cheeks

Say you'll see me again even if it's just in your wildest dreams (Ah ah)

Wildest dreams (Ah ah)

• Healthy relationships

• Toxic relationships

• Distant relationships

• Professional relationships

Read the passage from the song, Brave, by Sara Bareilles. According to the lyrics, what can words do?

[Verse 1]
You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody's lack of love
Or you can start speaking up
Nothing's gonna hurt you the way that words do
When they settle 'neath your skin
Kept on the inside and no sunlight
Sometimes a shadow wins
But I wonder what would happen if you

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave

[Verse 2]
Everybody's been there
Everybody's been stared down by the enemy
Fallen for the fear
And done some disappearing, bow down to the mighty
Don't run, stop holding your tongue
Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live
Maybe one of these days, you can let the light in
And show me, how big your brave is

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Bridge]
And since your history of silence
Won't do you any good
Did you think it would?
Let your words be anything but empty
Why don't you tell them the truth?

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
See you be brave

• Hurt you

• Heal you

• Make you laugh

• Have no effect

Read the passage from the song, Brave, by Sara Bareilles. What does the singer encourage people to do?

[Verse 1]
You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody's lack of love
Or you can start speaking up
Nothing's gonna hurt you the way that words do
When they settle 'neath your skin
Kept on the inside and no sunlight
Sometimes a shadow wins
But I wonder what would happen if you

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave

[Verse 2]
Everybody's been there
Everybody's been stared down by the enemy
Fallen for the fear
And done some disappearing, bow down to the mighty
Don't run, stop holding your tongue
Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live
Maybe one of these days, you can let the light in
And show me, how big your brave is

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Bridge]
And since your history of silence
Won't do you any good
Did you think it would?
Let your words be anything but empty
Why don't you tell them the truth?

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
See you be brave

• Speak up and say what they want to say.

• Stay silent and hide their feelings.

• Follow what others tell them to do.

• Ignore their own thoughts and feelings.

Read the passage from the song, Brave, by Sara Bareilles. True or False: The lyrics suggest that being silent is always the best option.

[Verse 1]
You can be amazing
You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug
You can be the outcast
Or be the backlash of somebody's lack of love
Or you can start speaking up
Nothing's gonna hurt you the way that words do
When they settle 'neath your skin
Kept on the inside and no sunlight
Sometimes a shadow wins
But I wonder what would happen if you

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave

[Verse 2]
Everybody's been there
Everybody's been stared down by the enemy
Fallen for the fear
And done some disappearing, bow down to the mighty
Don't run, stop holding your tongue
Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live
Maybe one of these days, you can let the light in
And show me, how big your brave is

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Bridge]
And since your history of silence
Won't do you any good
Did you think it would?
Let your words be anything but empty
Why don't you tell them the truth?

[Chorus]
Say what you wanna say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say
And let the words fall out
Honestly, I wanna see you be brave

[Post-Chorus]
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
I just wanna see you
See you be brave

• True

• False

The main message of the song is:

• To convey a specific theme or lesson

• To describe the instruments used

• To list the song's lyrics

• To explain the song's history

Which practice should you adopt to demonstrate assertive communication in a group setting?

• Avoid eye contact to minimize attention on yourself.

• Speak forcefully to ensure everyone listens.

• Use humor to make your point without offending anyone.

• Communicate your needs clearly and respectfully using "I" statements.