Challenges and Dynamics in Co-Parenting

Ebony Roberts and Shaka Senghor share their personal stories of childhood trauma and relationship challenges. They discuss their journey of co-parenting their son, Sekou, focusing on love, trust, and breaking toxic patterns. Despite their separation, they prioritize Sekou's well-being, fostering a nurturing environment. They emphasize the importance of affirmations and maintaining a positive co-parenting relationship.

What event from Ebony's childhood significantly impacted her views on relationships?

• Her mother's illness

• Her father's violent act towards her mother

• Her parents' divorce

• Her brother's departure

What was Ebony's primary concern after her breakup with Shaka?

• Her financial stability

• Her social life

• Sekou's well-being

• Her career

How did Shaka and Ebony initially build their relationship?

• Through mutual friends

• At a community event

• Through letters and phone calls while Shaka was in prison

• During a work project

What was a key factor that led to the challenges in Shaka and Ebony's relationship after his release?

• Post-traumatic stress and past traumas

• Financial issues

• Lack of communication

• Different career goals

What is a significant aspect of Ebony and Shaka's co-parenting approach?

• Limiting Sekou's activities

• Focusing on academic excellence

• Allowing Sekou to explore freely

• Strict discipline

How do Ebony and Shaka view their role in Sekou's life?

• As strict disciplinarians

• As guides on his life journey

• As controllers of his actions

• As passive observers

What societal challenge do Ebony and Shaka acknowledge in raising Sekou?

• Economic instability

• Racial biases against black joy

• Educational disparities

• Healthcare access

What is the purpose of the nightly affirmations with Sekou?

• To empower and protect him

• To improve his academic performance

• To entertain him before bed

• To ensure he follows rules

What is a key message Ebony and Shaka hope to convey through their co-parenting model?

• The importance of financial success

• The value of traditional family structures

• The possibility of successful co-parenting despite separation

• The need for strict parenting

What does Shaka emphasize as crucial in their co-parenting strategy?

• Maintaining a strict routine

• Scheduling activities

• Supporting each other in vulnerable moments

• Focusing on Sekou's academic achievements