your gender identity matches the biological sex you were born with

your ancestors chose to come to the United States, and were not forced to come

you've never felt ashamed of the clothes you've worn, the house your lived in, or the car your family drove

you can walk alone at dark without fear of physical violence or intimidation

you've never had to change your appearance, mannerisms, or behavior to avoid being judged or ridiculed for your identity

you have never had to worry about your physical ability in order to accomplish everyday tasks

you have a savings account

you can achieve success or display leadership without being called a credit to your race or gender

members of your family are considered “professionals” (doctors, lawyers, etc.)

you can easily find bandages in “flesh” color that match your skin color

your parents or caretakers regularly took you to the library as a child

you studied the culture of your ancestors in elementary school

you can engage in your religious worship and traditions freely, without fear of violence or threats

your important religious holidays fall on federally observed holiday “days off,

you have never had to translate from another language into English for a family member

the money that you or your siblings made was never used to support the “family budget”

you are older than 21

you can move freely in public spaces without needing to be aware of accessible entrances, doorways or bathrooms

you've been asked to represent or answer for your entire race or religious group

you have never had to conceal a romantic relationship from your parents, family, or friends, for fear that you might lose them

you’ve never experienced store clerks being suspicious of you because of the way you look

it is easy to find children’s books that portray a family unit similar to the one in which you grew up

it is easy to find children’s books that portray a family unit similar to the one in which you grew up