How to have a conversation

Celeste has noticed a big problem. What is it?

• Our politicians rarely agree with each other.

• More than ever before, people aren't listening to one another.

• Conversations too often become arguments.

Why is Celeste worried about teenagers?

• They fight a lot.

• Instead of talking with their friends face-to-face, they text each other.

• They aren't doing well in school.

What does Celeste do for a living?

• She's a teacher.

• She's a professional interviewer.

What does she mean about rule number one?

• Pay attention to the person or people you're with.

• If you want to get out of a conversation, start using your phone.

What does she mean about rule number two?

• Be willing to listen.

• Be willing to teach people what you know.

What does she mean about rule number three?

• Ask complicated questions, like, "Were you terrified?"

• Ask questions that start with who, what, when, where, why or how.

What does she mean about rule number four?

• Don't interrupt with every idea and story that comes to mind.

• For more exciting conversation, share ideas and stories as they come to mind.

What does she mean about rule number five?

• If you're not sure about something, guess - especially if you're an expert.

• If you're not sure about something, say you don't know.

What does she mean about rule number six?

• Tell people when something similar has happened to you. For example, if someone tells you about a wonderful experience they had, tell them about a wonderful experience that you had.

• If someone tells you about a wonderful experience they had, ask them open-ended questions about it.

What does she mean about rule number seven?

• It's best to repeat your main points in different ways.

• Make your point, and move on.