Reactive people make choices based on

• values

• principles

• emotions

Proactive people make choices based on

• values

• feelings

• emotions

Language that places blame on others is

• Reactive

• Proactive

Examples of reactive language are: (check all that apply)

• I have to . . .

• It’s not my fault If only . . .

• I choose to . . .

• I will try . . .

• I will do . . .

Examples of proactive language are: (check all that apply)

• I have to . . .

• It’s not my fault If only . . .

• I choose to . . .

• I will try . . .

• I will do . . .

A person that feels like a victim, gets angry and says things he/she regrets, and waits for things to happen is a _________________ person.

• Reactive

• Proactive

A person that feels responsible for his/her choices, thinks before acting and finds a way to make “it” happen is a _________________ person.

• Reactive

• Proactive

What CAN you control?

• How others might treat you

• How you respond to others or situations

• Who your parents are

• What your parents do