Rissy no Kissies

Why does Rissy not want kisses?

• They make her uncomfortable

• She is confused

• She is not a real Lovebird

• She is mean

When someone says "stop", we should...

• Keep going and see if they change their mind

• Do the same thing in a different way

• Stop.

• Make fun of them

In what areas can we set boundaries?

• We should set boundaries for for the way people speak to us, touch us, play with us, and anything else that will make us feel safe and secure and respected.

• Boundaries are only for touching

• Boundaries are only for the way people talk to us

• Boundaries are only for the way we play with our friends

According to the book, what should a Lovebird do before touching someone?

• Start with a hug

• Grab their arm

• Ask permission and respect the answer

• Poke them first

How did Rissy`s family and friends show respect after she spoke up?

• They listened when Rissy said "no".

• They kept trying to help Rissy learn to like kisses

• They left Rissy out of activities

What are some things Rissy did to make her boundaries clear?

• Explained what did make her feel safe

• Offered alternative ways to show affection

• Quietly hid her feelings

• Said "no"

Can someone belong even if their needs or wants are different from the majority?

• No

• Yes

• Only if they hide their true feelings

Why did the other Lovebirds have trouble respecting Rissy`s boundaries?

• Because Rissy needed to learn to do uncomfortable things.

• Becuase Rissy was wrong.

• Because it was different than what they were used to experiencing.

• Because Rissy was not a real Lovebird.

Is it rude, mean, or sick for Rissy to say "no kisses"?

• Yes, because we have to do what grown ups tell us.

• No. Setting boundaries is healthy and important.

• Yes, because we have to do what makes our friends feel good.

When is it obligatory for Lovebirds to kiss or be kissed?

• When it is their family asking for or giving the kiss

• When friends at school want to show their love

• When meeting someone for the first time

• Never. Lovebird`s body = Lovebirds`s choice.