Social Skills Scenarios

You are having a conversation with a friend who is upset about losing a game. What is the best way to show you are actively listening?

• Interrupt to tell a story about how you lost a game once.

• Look at your phone while they are talking.

• Nod your head and say things like "I see" or "That sounds tough."

• Change the subject to something more positive.

Two of your classmates are arguing about a group project. What is a good first step in resolving the conflict?

• Take sides and argue for who you think is right.

• Suggest that they take a short break before discussing it further.

• Tell them to figure it out themselves and walk away.

• Encourage them to raise their voices so the teacher will intervene.

What is a good problem-solving approach when you and a friend want to play different games during recess?

• Insist on playing your game and ignore their choice.

• Decide not to play at all.

• Take turns choosing the game each day.

• Let your friend decide every time to avoid conflict.

When someone is speaking to you, how can you show that you are paying attention?

• Look around the room to see what else is happening.

• Make eye contact and respond appropriately.

• Frequently check your watch.

• Start talking about a different topic.

What is an effective way to resolve a disagreement with a friend over which movie to watch?

• Refuse to watch any movie unless it's the one you want.

• Suggest watching one movie this time and the other movie next time.

• Stop talking to your friend.

• Tell your friend their choice is terrible.

In a group discussion, if you disagree with someone's idea, what is a respectful way to express your opinion?

• Laugh at their idea and say it's silly.

• Ignore their idea and talk over them.

• Explain your point of view and listen to their response.

• Tell them they're wrong without explaining why.

Being empathetic means that you...

• are pathetic

• are lazy

• help others

• understand and share other people's feelings and emotions