TED: A call to men | Tony Porter

The video explores the concept of the 'Man Box', a societal construct defining masculinity as tough, emotionless, and dominant. The speaker shares personal stories illustrating the harmful effects of these norms on men and women. He reflects on his upbringing, fatherhood, and childhood experiences, highlighting the pressure to conform to these gender roles. The video calls for redefining masculinity to promote emotional expression and gender equality, emphasizing that men's liberation is tied to women's liberation.

What is the 'man box' as described in the video?

• A set of societal expectations for men to be tough and emotionless.

• A psychological condition affecting only men.

• A new type of fitness routine for men.

• A physical box used to store men's belongings.

How does the speaker describe the societal view of women in the 'man box'?

• As leaders and role models.

• As equals to men.

• As superior to men.

• As property and objects.

How did the speaker treat his son differently from his daughter when they cried?

• He comforted both equally.

• He encouraged his son to express emotions freely.

• He ignored both of them.

• He told his son to stop crying and act like a man.

What did the speaker's father do in the limousine after the burial?

• He left the limousine to be alone.

• He remained silent the entire time.

• He cried and apologized for showing emotions.

• He laughed to hide his emotions.

What emotion was the speaker's father trying to hide in the limousine?

• Sadness

• Anger

• Joy

• Fear

What did the 12-year-old boy say would happen if he was told he played like a girl?

• He would feel proud.

• He would be indifferent.

• It would destroy him.

• He would laugh it off.

What was the speaker's reaction to being called to Johnny's room?

• He was excited and eager to participate.

• He felt pressured and conflicted about the situation.

• He immediately reported the situation to an adult.

• He refused to go to Johnny's room.

What did the speaker realize about the impact of the 'man box' on his actions?

• It made him more empathetic.

• It led him to prioritize his image over others' well-being.

• It encouraged him to be more open-minded.

• It had no impact on his behavior.

What does the speaker suggest is necessary for redefining masculinity?

• Encouraging emotional expression and equality.

• Maintaining traditional gender roles.

• Promoting dominance and strength.

• Ignoring societal expectations.

What does the speaker hope for his daughter's future world?

• A world where men dominate.

• A world where men and women are equal.

• A world where traditional roles are maintained.

• A world where emotions are suppressed.